Hello everyone. I posted a few weeks ago and got an overwhelming response. I wasn’t prepared but I am now! Feel free to send a message if you’re interested but please read all the way through.

I am a 29 year old submissive who is looking for a Dom to teach me. I am a dominate woman in my day to day life. But I want to be submissive to a man. I have never trusted or respected a man enough to allow him control. Fair warning, I have been in control for so long that it will take a very secure and patient person to dom me. I tend to ask a lot of questions and worry a lot. I am looking for a long term connection/relationship but that will come with time. I’m looking for local but am open to LDR for the right person. If you only want to play, please do not reach out.

About me: Much of my desire to be submissive comes from my Christian faith. But I also am a very strong feminist type who cares a lot about uplifting and empowering women. I am very sassy. Straightforward. Loyal. Generous. Funny. Kind. I was born overseas but I grew up in Texas so I have learned a lot of traditional values. All the while I tend to be more liberal politically and have a bleeding heart for social justice. My hobbies are baking, reading, shopping, taking care of house plants, listening to podcasts, and watching movies. I like board games and I spend a lot of time with friends. I go to church often and serve and volunteer where I can. I love music, I used to play a few instruments and sing a little. I am ambitious and hard working. I’m very emotionally intelligent. I have a masters degree and love learning. I enjoy going to farmers markets, coffee shops, and museums. I’m a decently popular extrovert but I have a little nerdy side, nothing too crazy. My biggest red flags are that I’m controlling, I’m a bit of a gossip, and I am always a little late to things.

Physical: 5’5, small hanging belly, curvy (large breast, large butt, small/proportionate waist), black hair, glasses. I’m more bottom heavy, with large thighs and butt being where I carry a lot of my weight. I have some back rolls and cellulite.

My kinks: spanking, choking, verbal/dirty talk (praise and degradation), cock worship

Hard No’s: bodily fluids (urine, spit, blood, feces), extreme pain, sharing (poly, cheating, group sex),

My Type: ideally between 27 and 35 years old. Physically I like men who are tall and broad. Think lumberjack/viking build but fluffy, not super muscular (like the dad from how to train your dragon lol). I’m very into Hispanic and white men. I love facial hair, especially a mustache but it needs to be well kept. I like men with good careers. Not just business men, blue collar men as well. Just have a steady career and ambitions. I spoil myself so I’d like a man who isn’t afraid of spoiling their person. Please be intentional and communicative. If I start questions what your motives and intentions are you, you’ve lost my attention and potential submission.

I’m looking forward to you reaching out. Please be patient as I sift through responses!