As the title suggests, I’m a gentlemanly dominant (49, based in Geneva, Switzerland). If you read on, you’ll understand why I stand apart in this often confusing world. When I say I’m a gentleman, I truly mean it. Should you connect with me, you’ll undoubtedly be treated as a lady. My world revolves around high standards. Yours should, too. I’m sadistic yet sensual. Questions? Ask away. If we seem like a potential match, I’ll share my training routine.

A Real Dom vs. a Fake Dom

A genuine submissive craves a guiding soul, a dominant with real presence, self-belief, and control. Many try to lure subs with immediate dominant rules and demands. They’re not real Doms. They don’t attempt to understand you, your mind, soul, or heart, all of which should precede physical touch. My 25 years of experience and learning are based on the latter approach.

Consistency and Attention to Detail

My submissive will be special because I’m committed to making her feel that way. Whether together, traveling, or apart, she’ll follow her daily rituals, dress as outlined, and perform her tasks—not because I force her, but because she’ll want to. She’ll want to please, and in turn, she’ll be pleased. She’ll enjoy serving me, having been patiently guided through my ways. A true Dom is consistent, and my submissive will find peace and calmness through this consistency, feelings she’s likely never truly experienced before. She’ll hear my voice daily, diligently perform her tasks, and gladly present her daily reports. She’ll take joy in my analysis and thoughts. It will be an honor for her to be mine, as she feels an emancipation she never thought possible. But consistency is key. A Dom leaves no submissive in the dark.

Never Intimidated. Always Encouraged.

Many subs share stories of Doms who intimidate or force them into uncomfortable situations. That’s not a true Dom, but a bully. A Dom encourages and reinforces. Yes, rules are necessary, but they should never be used as threats. They’re for guidance, growth, and taking the next steps. She may be bound, gagged, or punished, but all will be to teach her better ways, guide her to her ultimate destination: a place of emotion, passion, peace, and above all, presence—the presence of her perfect Dom.

To Subs

Respect yourselves. Many Doms will try to tell you you don’t deserve this. You do. You deserve it because you’ve chosen to surrender. Do so carefully, and the fruits of your Dom’s wisdom will be yours to cherish, protect, and adore, just as you adore your gentleman Dom.