I'm a skittish young trans woman who has enjoyed revolving around the BDSM scene for over a decade and wishes to make some of these fantasies real. I am quite submissive and masochistic. The reason for my waiting until now to experience this comes down to my appearance as well as being relatively picky about choosing someone as my dom. I believe a dom needs to earn the respect of a sub, and any dom who doesn't has a poor understanding of BDSM dynamics. I'm not the most confident person in the world, but I know what I want. I own a decent amount of gear, most of which is unused. Expect to be patient with me. I am a slow burn. If molding a submissive from the ground floor and training her how you wish sounds appealing, then consider leaving a reply.

First and foremest, I require clear communication from the get go and the ability to discuss fantasies and scenes together before hand. I have many, many kinks that I wish to incorporate in (or out of) the bedroom and you should, too. Obviously be respectful, be kind, please be interesting. Ideally you are above 25 or so, from north NJ, taller than 5'11, a strict yet rewarding dominant, resonating with my kinks or hobbies, and endowed with a penis. I've been with more women than I have men in the past, so I may lean towards one side. I can't host, but am more than happy to arrange something mutual if nothing else.

As for the kinks, they include (but are not limited to): Heavy bondage, rubber, chastity, cnc, petplay, humiliation, bodywriting, bimbofication, fornification, watersports, sensory deprivation, etc. Looking for someone to train me rigorously and shape me into a drone, a shiny sex doll, or a real pet. I also enjoy being made to wear things, especially when they can be embarrassing or humiliating. I'm admittedly tired of people who claim to be very kinky but consider spankings and blindfolded rough sex to be the only things they've considered doing to "spice things up". I'm not opposed to vanilla intercourse, but it must be complementary to the kink and BDSM dynamic we've created. I have few hard limits, but they include scat, vomit, ageplay, diapers, and excessive pain.

Outside of kink my hobbies include video games (if all you play is like, Apex or Genshin, we really won't get along), writing, hiking, etc. Rather 420 friendly.

BDSM has always been a cornerstone in my life, and I'm tired of having not submerged myself in a community of likeminded people. Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Holly

P.S. The more you get to know me, the less you’ll like me. You probably won’t stick around. Prove me wrong.