Is anyone here actually looking for something real, not just sexting or a fling? Maybe it just comes with the territory since this is an actual kink subreddit but I want way more than that. I’m just searching for something meaningful, a real connection with the juicy bonus of loads of kink added! The dating apps aren't what they used to be and I'm not going to pay to message, ridonkulous. In an ideal world, I would meet you while getting groceries and I bump into your cart "on accident". Maybe we meet any other way in the real world but it's just not that easy these days. I better stop before I start a ranting like an old man about the good old days when meeting people wasn't like pulling teeth.

Ok ok, if you made it this far you deserve some kudos. What I really want is to get to know each other, see if there is a spark. Plenty of banter and laughing, who knows maybe even get deep at some point. I just let things flow where they flow and go with it. We hit it off I take you back home for Thanksgiving to meet the fam (fuck you silly in my childhood bedroom, what it’s not weird at all lol), then join you for Christmas with your fam (perhaps more of the same late night fun and morning fun). Get married, make babies or just try a hell of a lot, white picket fence......yeah, I'm not crazy lol. I don't expect or push for any of that, if it happens down the road fucking fantastic but let's just go with the flow and see where that leads.

About me; like the post says I'm 37 years young. Single and never married but came awfully close once (dodged a big bullit there, we can get into that or absolutely not at some point lol). Physically, I'm 5'11 around 220 with what I have been told is a lumberjack build but I just call it a dad-ish bod. I also have blue eyes and some scruff on my face, think 5 o'clock shadow. I have a full time job, fortunately only 4 day work weeks but that does mean some nights I get home a little late. Wouldn't trade it for anything though, I love my job and I really love the 3 days off every week. Pretty big into sports but not a sports nut, as in I can go one day without turning on the game so we can go on an adventure or just spend a lazy Saturday in bundled up together binge watching horror flicks or some goofy flicks. I will say that hockey is my go to, big Dallas Stars fan and pumped the season is almost here. Hopefully you like going to games because nothing beats it as far as in person sporting events, bonus points if you're going to opening night next weekend too👍. I see myself as a fun-loving, at times goofy, yet kinky hairy chested ball of energy. If you're into that, fire away! I promise I can handle whatever you throw at me. We can get into kinks later, I want to know who you are first and hopefully that feeling is mutual.