I am searching for a woman who I can call my own, and I theirs. I want that closeness, trust, and mutual respect that can be built over time. There isn’t a switch I flip and go into dom mode, or anything; I am myself at all times,and need someone who accepts all of me. My philosophy is to create an environment that fosters your desire to submit than it is to be more "dominant." I am looking for a sub and submission is given from the sub's hands, and not taken by the dom's. I need to keep earning you as my partner day in and day out, but just because i have earned everything you have to give does not mean you have to offer it at all times.

About myself I have a fairly average, I wouldn't say dad bod, but daddy bod sounds about right. I have dark blonde hair and blue eyes, I usually wear glasses, and I have no tattoos or piercings.I would say I am a home body, I like hanging out with friends and play games (on PC), watch movies/tv, follow my favorite sports teams. I am from Cleveland and am a Browns fan so even if you don't like sports I would appreciate any level of emotional support/ stress relief you could offer during those games. I also love my family's lake house. My favorite place in the world is about 50 yards out past the dock; wading in the water, and watching the sun set as i sit with my thoughts. I have a picture of it on my profile.

Some kinks I am interested in include impact play, orgasm control, toys, mild bondage, collaring (when we are both ready for it that is) toys, instructions, service submission. I love hearing what people like and why because the psychological side of this really interests me, and if we understand why each other like what we do we are more likely to connect with each other's interests. I really just have normal limits like blood, scat, piss, animals, permanent marks. Also I don't want to torture someone who I am invested in, and when trying to earn submission I find that the carrot brings better results than the stick. That being said I know punishments have their place and don’t shy away from them when necessary. Punishments should be administered with the goal of learning for the future, and should fit the crime; I don't punish for punishments sake.

I am looking for someone who I can grow with. Regardless of experience level I hope we can have that period of training each other and learning each others preferences. I will need time to adjust to your needs and wants so I can be the best dom for you, same as I hope you will want to be your best for me.

If you're a sub searching for what I described feel free to say hello. The biggest thing I look for is someone who will put in thought and effort into their submission.Tell me about yourself and your ideal dynamic. Also don't be shy to ask me anything.