(I have divided this post in various parts with suitable headlines in bold, dive in. I sincerely hope we make it past the exchange of pleasantries and develop a connection. Too tired of people being unsure, some clarity of mind is very desirable.)

Who I am: I'm 36, professionally gainfully employed , 5.10 of height and trying to live a very healthy lifestyle. I have been in the kink/bdsm lifestyle for over 15 years now.

Who I am (but a little deeper): I'm the kind of person who likes vulnerability. I like the intensity that comes with honesty. I believe in mutual respect. Even when I'm degrading you, we both know there's a mutual respect for each other in our minds. I've been a daddy dom for over ten years now and with pandemic, just like everyone, I focused on mental health first. I now think I'm ready to venture and train someone with all that I've got.

Kinks: My kinks include orgasm control, denial, edging, forced orgasm, sadism, cnc, rapeplay, free use, impact play, bladder control, primal, slave/slut training and many more.I don't force my kink on anyone and I respect consent. I just don't want to only be a dom but will prefer that you (my sub) and I talk beyond the dynamic as well. Mental stimulation is important or I believe things go stale.

What it means to me: I take my role as a daddy dom religiously and put all my heart into it. I am strict and at the same time, I'm also a human besides being a daddy dom. And I know exactly when to be caring and loving. It's a duality that I live with. This duality is a part of me and you'll see that this somehow helps me in being the best version of myself.

What I am looking for? (What you and I are looking for?): A connection. A dynamic. Some honesty. Some vulnerability. A lot of Intensity. An imaginative mind. Healthy libido. Rants. Sessions. Intellectual discourse. (As you can see I am not very demanding!!!)

How can you reach me? What do you need to write in your message?: You can either DM me or Initiate a chat with me. You can either put in some effort (as most post here say it) in your reply or you can just say HELLO and we will go from there. I don't think Hellos are low effort though you’ll have to put in effort in your conversations once we start talking. You can share about what you think of my username. To reach out to someone takes courage and that is never a low effort to me.

Miscellaneous but important things What I ask is that be ready to have a conversation and no I won’t roleplay, I’m looking for a sub and I think that’s plenty clear from my post. In the recent past I’ve connected with few people from here, some were duds, some got cold feet and some were insecured, which honestly we all are but if you don’t communicate your insecurities out loud then you can’t expect me to read your mind. I needed to say this because once you feel like you’re developing a connection and invest your precious mental wavelengths with that person and the next moment they think you’re too busy with work and decide to vanish. My point is be communicative. Be open. Yes I’m an adult. Yes some days I may get busy. Some days even you might get busy. What I don’t appreciate or want is unnecessary drama when there needs to be none. We may begin at Reddit but I’ll prefer moving to someplace convenient for both of us to talk. I may or may not ask you to verify, I reserve the right for the same. I’m already verified here. I also prefer connecting on calls after usual texting since it brings in a lot more personal touch to the connection and communication.

I think that will be all and I will wrap it up here. Adios!

!lock