Hi, all!

Please, NO MEN! One is enough to deal with. Lol

I’m 31F, bi, and married with two little goblins. I’m new to being with women and my husband is aware and supportive of this journey. While I’m a bratty sub with my husband (hard male Dom), I believe I’m a switch leaning domme with women. I’m not new to BDSM, but newish to making it a lifestyle and ready to explore with likeminded females.

What I’m looking for: An affectionate and attentive female (AFAB only please) mentor/friend (or more) to help me become the best ✨kinky✨version of myself and in return I will work to make you the happiest version of yourself. I want to become a better sub AND learn to be a soft/mommy domme for another female. I would love someone to talk to throughout the day, help me choose outfits, and encourage a healthy lifestyle. I prefer something long term and a slow burn.

Potential dealbreaker: I snort when I laugh

Looks: 5'9", alt, feminine, conventionally attractive, pale with freckles, long wavy brunette (soon to be purple) hair, hazel green eyes, and currently a BBW, but actively working on getting in shape. My body shape is a curvy hourglass and my hips don’t lie even at my smallest weight. Lol Most of my clothes are black with a sprinkle of dark jewel tones, I have a good number of piercings, and I have an appointment for my first tattoo (hopefully of many) in November.

Some things I love: Art, reading, alt fashion, traveling, outdoors activities like camping, swimming, TTRPGs, board games, scary pc games, antiques, spooky stuff, weird facts, cryptids, true crime, singing, architecture & interior design, and comedy. I love trying and learning new things. I’m a goof ball and love to have fun and joke around.

Biggest kinks: praise, breathe play, bondage, CNC, tentacles, voyeurism, free use, impact play, and breast play

Limits: Scat, diapers, anything illegal, permanent damage, monogamy

If you’ve read this far and are still interested, please send me your ASL along with something you find hilarious, and be willing to verify. If you want an idea of my sense of humor, look up Andi Marie Tillman’s Nashveratu skits. 🦇