Trying this again after some previous success.

I'm looking for a long-term, eventually in-person relationship with a D/s element. I'd be open to anyone living in the UK.

About me: I'm 28, a sub-leaning switch with a fair amount of experience. Brown hair, green eyes, ghostly pale, freckles, 5'6", plus size. I love to travel, read, watch shit reality TV, play board games, and spend a lot of time with my dog. I'm always curious to learn and explore.

Values: I work in the third sector and appreciate others who volunteer or work in jobs that help others somehow. Politically, I'm left and I look for that in a partner too. I value resilience and motivation to improve, I face significant health challenges and don't mind if you have things that affect you too, as long as you're trying. Passion is super important to me, it doesn't matter what you care about but I want to hear about things that excite you and motivate you.

Dynamic: I'd like a D/s dynamic that extends a little beyond sex but not 24/7. I value my independence but would like the chance to give up control every now and again. The dynamic is far more important to me than specific acts, it should be natural and playful, not too strict but can be when needed. A pleasure or soft Dom would probably be most appropriate but I'm open to other approaches. I am generally interested in orgasm control, light impact play, and power dynamics and am open to trying most things. My limits are the usual: anything illegal, scat, permanent marks, etc., but also sending nudes and roleplay.

What I'm looking for in a partner: No kids, and you don't want them either (except maybe fostering/adoption). My ideal physique is rugby player build but I'm open to most body types that aren't extreme one way or the other. You need to like dogs, they are non-negotiable for me. You can hold an intelligent conversation and have a good sense of humour.

If you're interested in chatting, please send me message about your favourite place, or something other than just 'hey'. Looking forward to hearing from you!