As the cold season is coming up the wish for someone that can bring me that warm cozy feeling that comes with submitting has been getting stronger.

Something that I want to mention right at the beginning is, that I'm looking for a longterm dynamic that is online only. I'm currently in university and just don't see myself in an in person dynamic any time soon, and value the discretion and safety that this allows. I've had success with this in the past, but I know it's not for everyone. After trust is built I do enjoy sending pictures and videos, and also want to know what my dom looks like.

I found subspace to be like a little temporary escape from all stress and fears. There's nothing more enjoyable than being focused solely on obeying and pleasing, while feeling completely safe. It seems contradictory, but giving up control feels freeing. Even outside of sexual things I crave the feeling of being able to turn my mind off in my doms presence. Not in a tpe kind of way, but meaning I know I feel safe and can trust him to make decisions for me and lead me. As the big sister that moved countries for university it's almost my duty to have it all together at all times, and it's rare to find someone where I can unfiltered show all emotions and chaos that hide behind that.

Between studying and classes I really enjoy reading, hiking, photography and a few video games. I have a dog, and since I spent lots of time on my grandparents farm growing up, I'm just as fond of everything from chicken to cow. Physically I am rather petite, 160cm tall and 50kg heavy, with dark blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm usually going back and forth between a few countries in Europe, but if everything else is right I don't see time zones as a problem.

What do I expect of a dom? Really important to me is regular and honest communication. As I want to feel safe being lead by my dom and giving up control to him, I have expecations for his personality rather than physical appearance. I tend to go well with people that are confident in themselves and their actions. I like someone that I can rely on and that feels secure, while still being open about own emotions and struggles. As someone that likes literature, I can't deny that the way someone writes matters to me as well... Not a dealbreaker, but it's attractive if someone can express themselves well and always finds the right words. What deters me the most is childish behaviour and speech, that can literally erase any attraction. Age wise the range I feel comfortable with is 20-40, at most 45.

Since I enjoy pleasing the most I find it almost impossible to list my favourite kinks, as it changes depending on what my partner enjoys. What I'll always love though is praise, choking, light humilation, feeling used. Aftercare is really important to me.

If I can tell someone didn't read through the post I won't reply, I hope that is understandable. I'm aware that the search for a submissive is difficult, but I'd appreciate if only people respond that truly see themselves in this role. That saves all of us time, and bending yourself to fit someone's needs doesn't work for long. I hope it's clear by now I'm not a good target if you just want to get off quickly.

This is pretty long already, so if there's more you'd like to know feel free to ask and tell me a bit about yourself. This post sounds rather serious, but once I feel comfortable I can be quite bubbly and sweet as well.

Looking forward to meeting you!<3