Hiya!
I'm a 30-something, bi/gray-ace male who's also a lifestyle ABDL/Middle. Although I have a discreet professional and public life, I wear diapers 24/7 and definitely have a prominent "littler" side in private.
Today, I'm looking to connect with dominant or switchy folks who might be interested in a particular kind of dynamic. I'm not necessarily looking for a Mommy/Daddy (though I wouldn't be opposed to the idea), but...maybe something like a doting big sibling or babysitter? Someone to help impose rules and expectations (kinky or just to help with actual good habits), keep me in line with discipline when I don't stick to them, and remind me how pathetic and embarrassing it is that I still need you to keep an eye on me like this, at my age.
I'm open to both gentler and stricter dynamics and to keeping things as innocent or sexual as is fun for you. My diapers also don't need to be a focus of our play, if you're not into them, but they are a permanent feature of my wardrobe, so we won't click if they're a limit/active turn-off.
In my personal life, I'm shy, bookish, but also (I think) pretty sweet and curious. I like indie movies, making fussy cocktails, reading, and petting puppies. I'm also probably some unspecified brand of neurodivergent and can have trouble with being quiet and awkward with new people, so just be forewarned! I definitely open up more once we start to click.
Primarily looking for an online dynamic here, but I'm open to potentially meeting up if we connect and are relatively local.
Hope to hear from you!
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