Hello! I’m a 35 year old single male who is very much a soft dom/ pleasure dom. I am looking for someone to develop a relationship with. Distance not a huge issue but would like to stay around Midwest if possible. Open to further journeys for the right person.

I’m 6’3 and height weight proportional. I have a well kept beard and glasses, with a body that says “he’s active but also will make me pasta.” I’m very much a nerd and am into games of all kind. I watch tv and movies. I go to Broadway shows and concerts and sporting events. I like a little bit of everything. Also very big into travel and taking trips and cruises. Would love to have a partner to take on adventures with me.

Sexually I am very dominant with an emphasis on making my partner cum over and over for me. Orgasm control is big for me. Hair pulling, slapping, anal play, sensory deprivation/control, are things I have a bit of experience with. I am very oral and will eat both ass and pussy very well. I am very very big into praise both in and out of the bedroom. I’ve done a bit of restraints and I’m working on ropes and would like a partner to explore those with. I have some experiences with TPE and traditional roles and am open to some levels of those as well once trust is established. I like to set rules and hold my partner accountable for their actions. I also occasionally like a rough face fuck on the more extreme side of things. I’m very open sexually and am always willing to talk about my partners wants/needs. If I have listed something you don’t like it’s not a deal breaker, and if there’s something rougher or not listed you want/need from me I’m open to exploring that.

Please be younger than me. Age/race not super important. Ability to hold a conversation and talk about things outside of kink is what matters. Very much into personality and connection. I would love to provide and push you to be the best you. Would like to send clean photos fairly early and I’m super into voice notes/audio as well.