Hello,

I'm a 30-year-old man from the Netherlands—6ft, lean, with dark hair and a short beard. People say I resemble the actor from the series Lucifer. I speak and write Dutch, English, French and a little bit of German. With an engineering background and as the owner of a small company, I work hard and take pride in my professional life. But I also value balance and make time for the things that bring joy to my life.

I enjoy spending time with friends, hiking, and exploring new places. Staying active is important to me—I exercise multiple times a week and love starting wild new projects where I craft trinkets or devices. My creative side extends into my personal life as well, especially when it comes to rope work and engaging in imaginative scenes.

Having come out of almost a decade of loving relationships with only limited bdsm in the bedroom, I'm now eager to explore new dynamics and experiences. As a Dominant, I'm mostly gentle and nurturing, though I do have a playful, sadistic side that emerges in consensual play. I love getting artistic with rope and enjoy the thrill of teasing and tormenting my partner in a safe and consensual manner.

I'm seeking a woman who enjoys being dominated and finds fulfillment in structure and guidance—even in the form of assigned chores. Having a dutiful, though sometimes slightly rebellious, submissive girl would be a dream for me. Consent and open communication are paramount; safewords and boundaries are sacred and always respected.

I'm open-minded about the type of lady I'm looking for—some mutual attraction is important, but personality and connection matter most. I have my own place and would love to share it with someone special. While I prefer the possibility of meeting in person within the Netherlands or Europe, I'm open to building a connection online if it feels right. Whether this leads to a short-term adventure or blossoms into something long-term, I'm excited to see where this journey takes us.

If this resonates with you, I'd love to connect. Feel free to send me a message, share a bit about yourself, and let's explore the possibilities together.