Yeah, I know that's a tall order. But I also know I'm up for the task. I know I can be everything you wanted from a dom, drive you all the good kinds of crazy, and give you something new to obsess over.

Who am I? I'm a 26 year old young professional from Michigan. I'm 5’11 on a good day, with an exceedingly average build. Brown hair, blue-green eyes, broad shoulders and absolutely rocking that dad bod (which I'm slowly but surely wrangling under control by diet and 3 to 5 trips to the gym a week). By day, I'm a capable and driven college-educated professional in a high-stress role. The rest of the time, I'm a chronic tinkerer, a seasonal outdoorsman, a lifelong learner, a collector of hobbies and board games (which yes, is so prolific a collection it warrants its own mention), and fluent in many, many forms of nerd. Music is a crucial part of my life too. I've played for most of it now, I'm addicted to going to live performances, I’m definitely still an emo kid at heart, and I still belt out a mean song in the car. "Dad friend" and "golden retriever energy" are often used to describe me, and I'm always planning for my next road trip or travel destination.

I’ve been a dom ever since I knew the label existed, an active part of the community as soon as I turned 18. I've got plenty of experience in all kinds of dynamics, in person and online, from the tame to the brat tamer. I’ve also got a wide array of kinks to match (which we can discuss more privately). I'm willing to give anything a try once as long as consents involved and it's not at either of our limits too. As a dom, I usually identify myself as a pleasure daddy dom, but that soft exterior hides a sadistic streak. As a dom, caring for my sub and their pleasure is first and foremost - even if I get carried away, I’ll still hold you close and tell you how wonderful you were for me afterward. Can’t skimp on the aftercare.

And you? You’re a submissive looking for her missing piece. Someone adventurous with a good sense of humor, yet also driven with your own goals. Someone looking for a dynamic to enrich their life, not supplant it completely. Someone who understands the importance of communication and taking things slow to do them right. Submission is something to be given, not taken, so fostering an environment that lets my sub do that is critical. Therefore, I’m looking for getting to know each other first, and a dynamic second. I find that having some sort of relationship first, platonic or romantic or anywhere in between, is the only way to build enough trust for a dynamic to work.

What you look like doesn’t matter nearly as much as everything else you have to offer. If the chemistry’s there I won’t be able to get enough of you. Level of experience or type of sub doesn’t matter very much to me either. If the thought of being trained, being molded, broken down and rebuilt systematically to be the best sub you can be stirs up primal emotions inside you, sends a shiver down your spine, and gets you oh so eager to please then I can definitely work with you.

If it sounds like I’m talking about you, shoot me a message and let’s hop into getting to know every inch of each other. Talk soon!