Who am I?

As the title states, I'm a confident, caring, gentle Domme based in a Midwestern state (location to be narrowed down further with trust). I would say I'm attractive and intelligent (see: confident), but that's subjective, so maybe in time you can be the judge of that for yourself.

I work in the tech field, have a plethora of creative hobbies, and in my "spare time," I'm earning a CS degree. I love my dogs to the ends of the earth, I prefer curling up with a hot beverage and a book over a night out, and my mind is always moving a million miles a minute.

Who are you?

You're between the ages of 21-35, attractive, and searching for something serious. You have a deep-seated desire to please, and you're ready to devote the time and energy necessary to make both a relationship and dynamic work.

You have hobbies and interests you're passionate about, even if they don't align with mine. You're comfortable in who you are, and your life has direction, even if it's an unconventional or slow-moving one.

And while it’s by no means a requirement, I do have a soft spot for men that lack sexual experience. There’s something beautiful and meaningful about being someone’s gentle introduction to this sort of thing (provided they’re fully aware of the risks and rewards).

What will our relationship/dynamic look like?

Our relationship will begin as an online-only connection. Once the months have flown by and we're both ready to take the next step, we'll meet and work our way to an IRL relationship. That being said, neither of us will be in a hurry, as we both want a solid foundation of trust and love to build upon.

For the dynamic portion, that will vary based on what we both want and are comfortable with. I don't want a "just in the bedroom" dynamic, nor do I want anything along the lines of TPE (which, quite frankly, sounds exhausting). I want some measure of control over you both in the bedroom and out, but how that looks is flexible.

The down-and-dirty details:

Likes/kinks of mine include (but are not limited to) power exchange, orgasm control/denial, giving praise, biting/scratching/hair pulling, being worshipped, and giving tasks.

Dislikes/limits of mine include (but are not limited to) brats, back-talk, humiliation/degradation, the honorific “Mommy”, any form of scat or watersports, and heavy pain play.

Basically, I'm looking for a "good boy" whose kinks and limits align with my own.

Final notes:

Thank you for taking the time to look over my post. I know it was a long one! Please only message me if you fit my requirements, and if you're truly ready for what I'm offering. Include details such as your age, your general location, how you spend your days, and who/what you're looking for.

Have a great weekend ahead! Cheers, all. 💕