This is for those who have been accused of being “a bit much.” Smart Brats with a smart mouth. Ones that have an attitude problem and dare someone to do something about it. Who has had previous Doms complain about her sass. Someone who will poke and prod, tease and taunt, torment and titillate, all to provoke a punishment for their actions. A Brat who wants to be “too” successful in earning a punishment, who wants to feel in over her head. Because a Brat won’t just submit to any old scrub that comes by and demands it, that just results in a stuck-out tongue and a middle finger. No, a Brat has to have her walls broken in order to submit. A Brat will put up a tough shell and claim to be invincible, daring Tamers to try and crack it open. Oh, she won’t make it easy, and even when she starts to feel that subby itch she won’t come out and admit it. She is determined to go down fighting until her brain is gooey mush full of hormones that she can’t even think about resisting anymore. Usually complaining the entire way. There are multiple steps that come with this process.

First is the banter, because what would a Brat/Tamer dynamic be without this most crucial of institutions? This verbal sparring is as much a challenge as it is foreplay to get both parties in the right headspace. This is also the first step of getting a Brat to submit. Slowly tie her up with words, take what she says and use it against her, tell her all the kinky things you are going to do to her, anything to slowly get her cornered. Then comes the attitude adjustments to further break her shell. Spanking is my go-to, if a Brat has earned it of course. If she hasn’t then something simpler like lines works if she doesn’t want to put in the effort of making her Bratting interesting. It provides a bad precedent to reward laziness. But if she does earn a spanking then there is quite the amount of options. Paddles, Crops, Rulers, and the good old-fashioned hand are what I have currently to offer, but I am always looking to expand my toy bag, most likely with a crop next. I find that spanking is most effective when mixed with a humiliating punishment. For example: corner time with her pants around her ankles and her red butt on display before right back to the spankings. At this point the Brat should be nice and gooey, be sure to praise the now good girl and reward her with orgasms, if she still is feisty then repeat the above processes and mix in other ones that keeps the Brat on her toes. Be unexpected, if a Brat feels she can guess what will happen she will get lazy.

My Kinks:

• Spanking
• Humiliation
• Banter
• Orgasm Control/Denial
• Wardrobe Control
• Body Writing
• Discipline
• ETC

Finally, the most important part: the aftercare. Knowing how much Brats fight, and how much Tamers enjoy it, a scene can get hot and heavy fast. That is a lot of hormones that now have no place to go being dumped from her body, which can and will lead to drops. Cuddles and care are my preferred ways of aftercare. Holding a Brat if she drops, building her back up with praise if needed, and just reveling in the fun that we had. Now I know this is not universal for everyone so naturally there will be changes made to accommodate a Brat’s personal preferences of aftercare, just as long as the aftercare happens. She won’t be able to get out of that like she can get out of punishments, so just accept the cuddling.

If all of that sounds like fun then I hope to hear from you soon. I am preferably looking for something in person in the Chicago area. I am open to talking to someone some distance away online but I won’t commit to a dynamic until that in person connection has been made. I have tried out online dynamics and have found they are not for me, but again that doesn’t mean I won’t happily talk online.

As for me in a safe for work sense: I am 6ft tall (actually measured not rounding up) with hair down my back and a beard. I am white so expect some paleness (I currently have quite the farmer’s tan going on). I am a cat person when it comes to pets. I am working on my health through weightlifting and more recently running. I am currently a full time University student to finally get my Bachelor’s degrees in Political Science and History. So knowledge of one or both of the topics is a huge plus, or just knowledge of any topic at all. I like intellectual conversations, and who knows, maybe a debate can be turned into foreplay. In my free time, besides exercise, I can be found reading books or comics, gaming, or watching various anime. I am a nerd overall so if you are as well that’s even better. If you have any other questions please reach out, and if you read this far start your message with VIVA!

-Hatter