I’m a 43-year-old Dominant from Pennsylvania, standing at 6’3”, and seeking a female submissive who is serious about embracing high protocol and service dynamics. For me, D/s is about much more than just the physical aspects—it’s about creating a deep, ongoing connection rooted in mutual respect, trust, and understanding. I’ve spent considerable time learning and living this lifestyle, and I’m particularly drawn to the rituals, structure, and power exchange that come with a traditional dynamic.

What I’m looking for is someone who shares my appreciation for the mental and emotional depth that this type of relationship can bring. Whether you’re experienced in submission or new and eager to explore, I’m interested in a partner who is willing to embrace the learning process and grow together with me. I take my role as Dominant seriously and believe in leading with both strength and care, ensuring that boundaries are respected while continuously challenging and encouraging growth.

In terms of interests, I focus on power exchange, impact play, control, and service. I’m also interested in exploring deeper elements of protocol—where every interaction is part of a carefully built dynamic, from the way you speak to me to the tasks you perform. While kink is certainly important, the psychological and emotional aspects of submission and control are equally essential to me. The idea of molding and guiding a submissive in a way that empowers both parties is what drives me.

While I’m based in PA, I’m open to both local and long-distance dynamics if the chemistry and commitment are there. Communication is vital, and I want someone who isn’t afraid to express her desires, needs, and boundaries while being open to receiving guidance and structure. If you’re looking for a Dominant who values respect, growth, and intensity, let’s see if we align.

Send me a message and let’s talk—whether you’re experienced or just starting to explore, I’m interested in seeing where this could go.