heads up this is long lol: ok hi!! i am a 23f upcoming college grad who’s just moved back home. about a year or two ago i started seriously dating, and also becoming active in online communities. overall i’ve really enjoyed my experiences! but now that im ready to start looking for a long term partner, ive found if i meet someone in a “vanilla” way (out and about, on a dating app, etc) and we get on great platonically, we might not click sexually. soo i thought i would make a post here! to be clear im only interested in a long term, IRL relationship right now.

about me :) im a 23f mixed, petite, fairly pretty i think lol. i am an introverted extrovert, i have a pretty active social life and enjoy time with my friends, exploring the city, going out for drinks, to concerts etc. but i really value my alone time as well, my favorite hobbies are reading, working out and walking my dog lol. & watching great tv. i’m trying to get more into gaming. i also am pretty well traveled & have a passion for adventure, so i would love a partner to join on trips :) im a bit nerdy and would appreciate someone who i could have intellectual conversations and also maybe share some like niche/lame interests lolll.

what im looking for :) a soft dom who is looking for his forever sub! & maybe more.. physically im really short so it’s fun having a tall strong dom lol, but i also like pretty boys. conventionally attractive, hygienic, and in fairly good shape please. i don’t love beards/body hair. i’m also looking for someone around my age (22-32) as i think we would have more in common, but im maybe interested in someone a bit older bc i would enjoy having a mentor figure. please be emotionally mature & genuine in your intentions. while im a submissive girl & feel most at ease in that role, i understand that my submission is earned & i only want to give it to the man for me. i think he will be protective, naturally dominant, and respectful. not into toxic posturing to release misogynistic ideals. im a romantic and am looking for a gentleman, who would genuinely enjoy the process of dating and getting to know each other, not rushing into the sexual aspect or having it be our main connection. i like the idea of having a daddy dom who makes me feel the safest in the world and treats me like a princess :) maybe who has a higher stress job & would like to come back to a comfy home made up by me, where he can relieve all his worries & we can take care of each other :) the control/power exchange aspect of bdsm is my favorite thing. kinks: i’m technically a switch but sub leaning, so i’ll focus on my sub kinks here- praise, spanking, some exhibitionism, roleplay/dress up, light bondage, orgasm control, cockwarming, teasing, domestic service, choking, & much more lol. i have some experience but not much so im hoping my dom will be willing to explore & introduce me to things, and to be patient in training me!

hard limits:: slaveplay, raceplay, ageplay, hardcore pain, gore, scat. if you hold any prejudicial views (racism, misogyny, etc) keep scrolling. 4/20 friendly.

trust is really important so i would like for us to develop a bond and be friends before anything, soo if you think we could be looking for the same things please send me a fun message & a sfw picture to get the ball rolling! i look forward to maybe meeting my person :) thanks so much for reading all this lol