This is the first time I’m attempting to reach out in this way, so I apologize if my post smells of reservation and uncertainty – because it does.
I’m 41 and I live in Upstate NY. I’m financially independent and all that but there is absolutely something missing in day to day life.
I’d like to find someone who genuinely cares, and wants to be involved. I’d like to find someone who wants to share in life’s moments – from small talk up through more difficult struggles. I’d like to find someone who wants to share pictures back and forth, have long talks, make memories, etc.
I’d like to find someone who will not make me initiate all the conversations, someone who wants to check in on me if I’m having an off day, someone who wants to invite me to participate in things.
I’d like to find someone who speaks directly, and openly like me. I’d like to find someone where we could be just as comfortable singing in the kitchen, being wildly nsfw, or quietly enjoying each other’s presence.
I’d like to find someone who asks me questions. I’d like to get excited when I hear a notification sound, instead of just being anxious so much. I’d like to find someone who wants to be active. I'd like to be able to relax and be comfortable in a relationship and not have to worry about people leaving at the earliest sign of discomfort.
I know I have a lot to offer and I think I want to try taking more of a backseat for once.
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