Some of the below is idealized, not realistic to find wrapped up in a single person who happens to be out there waiting to offer me the leash to her clit. If you feel like a near match and like the gap is something we might be able to bridge, reach out anyway.

The ideal you: - have a range of sex toys. If you have a lot of them that's even better but it isn't a requirement. If you don't have a wide selection, be open to using safe household items. - lean into twisted fantasy and ideation. I don't expect you to jeopardize your safety but I want someone who brings their own perversions to the table. Be enthusiastic or have a craving to think and act and speak like a slut. - enjoy discipline, structure, training and tasks. You like to be told what to do, praised when you do well, chastised when you need to do better, and having clear definitions around both. - love masturbating, vibing, clamping, stuffing. All around just high sexual use and expression because there will be a lot of it.

About me: - am open to age gaps in either direction, time zone differences in either direction, and variable levels of privacy. With enough creativity and grit most problems can be figured out. - limits: blood, damage, high risk (getting "caught" means I lose my toy). - kinks: control, discipline, bimbos, sluts, smart women who are these things regardless, drool, hole training, pain, humiliation, praise, masturbation, edging, denial, bondage, porn, chemplay, free use, insertions.

The bottom line is I will want to use you and I will want to challenge you. I will want to poke, prod, and experiment with you to find out what it is that you can give me of yourself and how it is that you can do it. This also means being flexible against the demands of real life. There's no such thing as infinite time and bottomless appetite. There will be breaks, pauses, delays, accommodations to be made. Expecting your best doesn't mean ignoring health, disrupting work, or giving up on other hobbies and interests.

But it doesn't mean letting things slide or having low standards either.