I’m looking for a Dom who I can also date to have a long term, romantic relationship with. If you’re not interested in that, then we are not compatible.

Id prefer a masculine man who is 5’8 or taller (I’m 5’4) and aged 23-40 (I’m 23). Im into most body types, from dad bods to gym bodies. Im not into very skinny guys. I’m only interested in someone who is local to me, I’m not looking for anything online.

I consider myself a masochist and need a dom who has a sadistic and possessive side. On the other hand, I’m searching for someone with a Daddy Dom side as well- someone who is disciplinary (and not just “funishments”), and likes brats, but has a caretaking, nurturing side with a sense of humor.

I need the Dom/sub dynamic inside and outside the bedroom. It is not just a sexual thing for me. I want certain areas of my life (up for negation, tailored to what makes sense for us) controlled with rules. I’ll admit I’m not the best at giving myself structure and want a dom who is interested in helping me.

Outside of kink, I need a man who is capable and interested in getting to know the real me and letting me know him. Honesty is a big deal for me, I like straight forwardness. I’m looking for a deep, emotional connection so I need a man who is emotionally open and intelligent. Loyalty is also a huge necessity in my relationship. I do not like sharing, I’m looking for monogamy.

Some kinks I’m into include (but are not limited to)- bondage, CNC, impact play, degradation, and breath play.

Some things about me, I’m plus sized though I have recently started to work on not being that anymore. My life has had some hard times and I deal with some mental health stuff so I need someone who understands that. I’m in the process of going back to school to finish my degree and, in general, getting my life back on track. I’m very honest, loyal, and don’t want to play any games.

If you fit what I’m looking for and are looking for the same, message me and start a conversation. (If not, please don’t message for other things, I’m not interested in anything else)