To clarify on the title, I'm not looking to amass a horde of submissives but am open to taking over submissive pairs and throuples looking for a Domme. This does not mean I will not be faithful in a dynamic, just that I am open to different kinds.
I'll start by what I'm looking for; I want a long-term, genuine, dynamic based on trust, honesty, and communication. I won't settle for anything less.
The kind of dynamic I want is intense and focused. I don't mind clingy and needy submissives who require a decent amount of attention (it's only a problem if you genuinely cannot handle some space between messages for life with space defined in minutes and not hours). I want you to want to talk to me and will go out of my way to make sure I get it. I want you to turn to me for everything from how your day went to what murderous plot you're cooking up to what fantasy you couldn't stop thinking about whole grocery shopping.
I have around a decade of experience with kink off and on and consider myself knowledgeable and relatively experienced. I am a service top who thrives on adapting to my partner. The way that I feed my submissive side while Topping is that I cater exclusively to my submissives kinks, though I still empty them when and how I like; don't take that as a sign that I give in and cater to my submissives.
My vanilla self it's a Type-A, nerdy, organizational freak who makes a system for every nerdy hobby I have, the better to track and conquer. I'm a fan of reading, writing, music, journaling, arts and crafts, and learning, to name some blanket interests. I'm more than happy to give you a list of specifics, but I don't think this is the place to put that; come ask me.
One thing I should definitely mention is that I have a vetting period. I do not dominate immediately, or even within the first week, I do not tolerate honorifics when you don't even know how to properly address me, and I absolutely will not help you get off until we are in a trial-run at least.
If the entirety of this message spoke to you, please, feel free to reach out and tell me a little about yourself and why you're contacting me (what spoke to you, what you're looking for, or something along those lines).
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