Empathy is both my biggest strength and biggest weakness. I’m a problem solver, I work to help my community, and I get invested really quickly.

I’m also really intelligent. I love reading, and could talk for hours about history and other weird things. I have an innate curiosity and always am driven by learning more.

I’m a plant person, a bookworm, and love to cook (and I’m pretty damn good at it). I love learning about others and their special interests. I’m adventurous, and also like staying active.

I’m curvy (not BBW, but I’m not tiny) but active, not afraid to admit that, but not for a lack of activity, I just really like cooking, and believe that moderation is the key to living a happy life.

I’ve been around the proverbial kinky block several times, ranging from long term things to casual stuff. I’m an experienced submissive and I’m seeking a Dom for a long term dynamic built on trust.

I’m super independent, and by no means need this, which is why I’m also looking for online primarily. I am able to travel, and happy to, but also, I’ve got my own life, and want to build something lasting before I make any impulsive decisions to like, relocate or start traveling halfway across the country.

Ideally I’m looking for someone who is supportive and kind but also strikes the balance of dominant. I find I vibe best with someone who I can banter with and have intelligent discussions. Someone who values me for me, and not for the set of holes I could be.

I have a list of kinks and limits I’m happy to share, but for the love of god engage me in an actual conversation first.

Also, I’m honest. I’ll tell you like it is, and if you don’t like that, no skin off my back. I just ask for honesty in return. Also, if you ghost me you’re a coward and stupid.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk. If I sound like your cup of tea, hit me up, I’m pretty cool and shit.