I’m Edelgard, a cis female member of a DID system, living in an AMAB body. I can understand that sentence may be confusing, I am happy to explain it in detail via DMs. My life is stable and financially secure, and I'm looking for a Dominant who values an online relationship without expectations of it moving into offline.

A lot of people lean on me, and for once, I want to lean on someone else. I’m seeking a Dominant who can hold me gently accountable when I need it, especially in areas where I tend to struggle, like managing ADHD and working independently. That needs to be discussed obviously, I want to make sure it's mutually fulfilling. I want you to enjoy holding me accountable and helping me succeed in small goals.

My body is legally married to a wonderful woman. While there’s no romantic connection between her and I (Edelgard), we’re good friends, and I have her full support to seek my own relationships. I understand this might be unconventional, but I appreciate someone who’s open to understanding and respecting our arrangement. We are polyamorous in that sense, but it's not conventional.

I am seeking something emotionally platonic--borderline professional, but I also know that Dominants have sexual needs and I want someone who can be open and honest about them. I believe I can meet those needs, I have a lot of experience with only sexual exchanges, it's just a matter of negotiating.

With kinks there's very little I categorically oppose. I'm open-minded in general and not easily offended. Overall I would say I like a certain tone--almost professional, like a boss and employee. I'm not listing specific likes because I think it could be misleading; I enjoy spanking, even to the point of bruising, but there's specific context around every kink that affects whether or not it works for me.

If you've made it this far, you may feel a little deflated--that's intentional. I really want to keep expectations low for the both of us, and see if we can build something together.

Additional notes (here because I didn't want to rework the structure of my ad):
I have a very vivid "headspace", an inner world that feels real to me, and that is also a medium where I like to explore sexuality--it's not roleplay to me because it feels real, I don't write beautiful prose when I'm explaining what's going on in there, and I don't need anything more than simple, physical commands to make things work.

I don't mind migrating to another app, but I prefer starting off on Reddit, and at the same time I don't mind signing up/setting up a different app or service if you have a preference.