Hey stink bugs! I’m a graduate student in Northern Virginia who is looking for a dom(me)/submissive dynamic. I’d love for it to be based in genuine connection with some alignments with our passions. I’m new to exploring dynamics outside of a dungeon where folks mainly played so, be patient with me please!

Introduction

I’m a 5’7 afro-latine who teeters between being introverted and a smidge of extroverted. I love a little night out at a club dancing to some good music but I also love a night in where get to chill and watch a movie while eating a little home cooked meal or order out. I would say I’m decently attractive physically if that matters to you. I'll feel comfortable sharing pictures of my face after trust is built. I don't send nudes however, I love recieving them if you are a person who likes to show off. I like to show off my outfits if I'm going out! Feel free to do the same. I currently have six piercings and two sweet tatties. I plan on getting more of both!

I spend lots of my free time writing poetry, reading, or finding something new to learn about. My occupation is related to teaching so, yeah. I’m a complete nerd as in I love D&D (im playing in a party right now), cartoons and anime are my favorite things, and I’ll watch some form of a video essay as a way to decompress, or I’ll play a silly little video game. Other things I really like are museums, linguistics, any form of creative art, live music, exploring new places, and rock climbing. I’m sure there are more things but that’s all I can think of at the moment.

Okay, but what are you looking for?

I’m hoping to meet someone who is dynamic, respectful, and understanding. I’m a switch that leans more on the submissive side than dominant and I have some bratty tendencies. For now, I'd like to explore dynamics with me acting as a submissive than a dominant. IWith that, I haven’t been in a dynamic ever. I’ve played with some folks in the BDSM community and spent time at a dungeon local to my university in undergrad. Here are my preferences!

• Someone understanding that my occupation and studies keep me busy
• Someone 23-30 years old
• Someone with recent sexual health tests and good hygiene (for those local to me)
• Someone okay with navigating a dynamic with a person who is new-ish to the scene

👁️ What are you into?

This isn’t something I need you to do all the time! I love to explore new things and this is what I have and enjoy.

• Cuddles!
• Oral Sex
• Praise & Degradation
• Spanks and other forms of fun punishments
• Orgasm control, edging, and overstimulation
• Biting, scratching, hickies
• Collaring/Collars
• Having things in my mouth,,,,(fingers, nipples, tongues, etc.)

and so so much more!

Hard Nos & Limits

Please dear god don’t ask me to do this or make me do these things. It makes me uncomfortable or physically sick. Power to you if you love this! It’s just not for me.

• Age play
• Anything illegal
• Race play/Slave play (I’m black it’s not hot it’s quite scary for me)
• Branding
• Feet
• Bathroom stuff
• Blood
• Knifeplay

I’m interested! Yay! I could be too. Send me a message telling me about yourself (age, location, pronouns, hobbies, interests) and a piece of media that was super formative for yourself. For me it is Adventure Time! Something about that show just added, like, coke to my creativity switch and it hasn’t been off the drug since.

Talk to you soon! xoxo Pluto (they/she)