Hi hi!

I am a Canadian AFAB Enby person looking to make a new connection in the community! I currently have a nesting partner but I am poly - I am not looking for an exclusive connection. I am pansexual and demisexual as well - I do not have any interest in quick sexual exchanges. I need a friend first and foremost.

I am not going to rush into anything and I am certainly not going to be someone’s masturbation fodder. If you need someone to get you off, there are plenty of other folks who would be happy to help you with that!

A little about me:

• passionate, creative, and driven - I’ve always got some project on the go
• poly, partnered, and happy! - I am very happily in a relationship and this is not going to affect or change that
• I love to work in myself and learn new things! I’m always reading something interesting and I stick to a pretty strict routine - I’m not going to be up half the night and I’m not always endlessly available.
• love to read and I’ve started developing a love of audiobooks as well! Always up for new suggestions!

About kinky me:

• I am a dominant leaning switch
• I am currently in a 24/7 dynamic as a service submissive to my partner
• I am not interested in sexual play of any kind; if you are only interested in orgasm control, pegging, or anything like that I will not be a good fit for you
• If you claim to not have any limits, we will not be a good fit. I don’t mind people being new but knowing what your limits are and aren’t is an important thing

Who I’m looking for:

• someone between the ages of 30-45 with some experience in kink - I do not have any interest in anyone younger than 30 for anything other than friendship - no you will not be the exception
• I am more interested in other switches or submissive folks. I have very little interest in speaking with another Dom unless they are capable of being respectful of my relationship and dynamic.
• time zone doesn’t really matter but if you’re closer to EST we will likely have similar schedules
• someone poly or single - I do not have any interest in couples, or people who are hiding what they do online from their partner (s)
• someone who is willing to have conversations that are not just about kink! I want to be friends as well - I feel like it makes for the best play if we are to progress that far
• someone willing to be honest, open, and communicate with me. I do not tolerate people who aren’t willing to have the hard talks and work as a team.

If this sounds like something you could be interested in, feel free to send me a DM! I would love to hear about any creative projects you’ve got going on/what your hobbies are and what you hope to get out of a new connection ☺️

Looking forward to hearing from you soon!