You want real power exchange - not role play, not a pen pal or some sexting. You want to be controlled throughout your life - not just in the bedroom or your diet or being told to follow a no-panty rule. Danger, fear and the unknown are like a drug to you - and an experienced, versatile sadist fulfills those needs on a primal level. You need love, snuggles, praise and head pets mixed into the hard use, tasks and dark fetishes. A healthy life needs vanilla activities and hobbies too - which you want to share with your owner. Serving, your place, your owner and your rules/protocols/rituals make you feel desired, loved, wanted and safe.

These are all the things that I need and make me happiest in a BDSM based relationship too.

• 20 years of in-person experience that includes power exchanges, M/s dynamics, making toys, teaching classes, volunteering at dungeons, participating in communities, attending play parties and much more
• I blend strict rules and training, playful banter, sadism, ownership, praise, punishment, affection and vanilla elements into my relationship. I feel like we often get so focused on the kinky aspects that we forget that these real people and full relationships that need many different elements to be successful
• Kinks and fetishes stretch the gammut - CNC, behavioral training, high protocol, impact, rope, leather, predicaments, orgasm control/denial, chastity, speech/eye restrictions, appearance control, various clothing fetishes, breath play, humiliation/degradation, emotional/mental sadism and much more.
• I follow Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). I want to know that you consent and understand the risks - because if it isn't an enthusiastic yes then it is a no in my book. Ask me why I think the concept of limits is silly and lead to abuse of inexperienced subs
• Your experience level does not matter. What is important is that you take great satisfaction in serving, you feel safest when owned, you love to learn and you understand that being collared doesn't happen overnight.

You can learn more about me on my profile where I also have pictures of myself and kinky toys/projects. I'm also happy to vet, provide references and answer any questions you might have.

If this is the life you want - please send me a chat with a bit about yourself and why you would be a good sub for me to own.

Damon