Hihi. I should preface I am seriously dating someone first, and they know about and consent to this. l've posted audio porn before but this is my first time maybe looking into a stranger getting me off so I would like to feel it out, and if i like it, maybe come back to said stranger every other month or so or when sexually frustrated.
I have some pelvic issues like a little bit of clitoral pain, numbness, and anorgasmia which might make sessions long and I'm very weary about who I might do things with. I need a gentle person, at least when I don't want someone to be rough, and painplay with genitals would be very much a no.I do prefer penetration. Have a big interest in receiving cunnilingus but feel indifferent about fingers. Vaginal sensation is low and an orgasm can't be guaranteed. It would still feel very good and satisfying though. I prefer being submissive, and am iffy on giving pleasure, but very very into being fucked/serviced. I'm also open to some kinks. Especially praise. My favorite ones also include breeding, orgasm denial and encouragement, light bondage, oral fixation and vaginal toys. I also want to try out a daddy kink even with a woman, and maybe one day power bottoming. I may be uncomfortable with lip kissing but am maybe into biting and touches.
I haven't been sexual in quite a while so would like to start with some vanilla things to feel the partner out, but if it gradually gets a little kinkier in the scenario, I wouldn't mind. Foreplay and Aftercare would be important to me as well. Nothing too degrading at first please, especially since it would be new. I am mostly looking for sexting. But if we get close enough I may be open to phone sex in the future. I am okay receiving photos and videos but won't be sending any. I am okay sending and receiving voice messages though. I also don't want anyone too much older than me, and this is my first time trying anything like swinging so l'd like patience and ability to feel it out and end the conversation if I don't like it. I'd also like to get to know whoever chooses to interact with me first before jumping into play.
I am nonbinary (afab) but am very okay w feminine terms in bed.
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