Hello!

Before I even knew what BDSM was, I found myself turned on by the idea of being restrained during sex, used, abused, degraded, and controlled. Years later and here I am...

I have never had a Dom before. The only 'kinky' experiences I have had so far were a few years ago, when I was seeing an older guy, he'd occasionally restrain me, spank/use a riding crop on me, and be slightly rougher. It was fulfilling at the time, but now I am looking for fully explore my submissive side. I have done lots of research, and am now ready...

I am looking for an experienced Dom/Master aged 30-45 who would be willing to take his time to train me at a slow and steady pace. A Dom who is caring, respectful, patient and understanding. But also strict when needed, strong, confident and not afraid to put me in my place. A Dom who has a dark/sadistic side.

I am looking to get to a stage where the dynamic is 24/7 / TPE - so it is important that you are also looking for this, I have no interest in short term, or occasional play partners. I want get to the stage where my Dom has FULL sexual control over me, and a majority of control over my every day life. My kinks include - impact play, restraints, breath play, orgasm control/denial, nipple torture, humiliation, CNC, face slapping, rough/brutal sex, fear play, abduction play, TPE, and much more!

A bit about me - 26, white, 5'3, curvy, auburn hair, hazel eyes and glasses... very much a plain Jane. I live alone in Oxfordshire (but am not willing to host), drive, work part time. In my free time I enjoy spending time with friends, family, cooking, baking, long country walks, travelling and listening to music.

Please be aware - I am autistic. This does NOT hold me back in life. But it does mean I am shy and anxious around new people - this is why it is vital to me that I find a Dom who is patient and willing to take this at a steady pace. It takes me a long time to build trust. I strongly believe my autism plays a huge part in my interest in kink!

I have a few pinned posts on my profile that may be worth a read. If you are interested please send me a message, I will not be sending face pics straight away, so don't bother asking. No younger or married men! And I have NO interest in online play!

M x