I am a London based 51-year-old Dominant. I am cultured and well-spoken. I love art and design, cooking, films, wine, travelling, politics & much more. I am white, reasonably good looking and sport a classic dad-bod and beard. I don’t have kids (please be the same, and no desire to start a family). I have my own place and a good life, however I’ve realised that for true happiness I need a partner that is the same type of perverted as I am. I am extremely sadistic when needed, yet caring, kind and full of love. The kind that will degrade and humiliate you while stroking your hair and whispering sweet, loving words. Whose creative, twisted imagination will stretch your body and mind in unthinkable ways out of sheer love.

So, I’m looking for my submissive / slut / life-partner / best friend & other half all in one. A woman to own entirely, mentally and physically. I will be your protector, your owner and, above all, your carer. In return you will offer me true, unwavering devotion, total submission, and, if I’m lucky, unlimited love.

I look forward to discussing my kinks with you in more detail. I am experienced at introducing newbies to their submissive fantasies, so I would be comfortable with a slow start and build to something more intense.

Some things I particularly love and would want you to share too: pain, humiliation, training, pussy/breast torture, bondage, orgasm control and denial, chastity, aspects of dd/lg (no age play), and much more...

Kinks aside, I am looking for a monogamous relationship, with trust, openness and honesty at the core. Outside of home, we’d come across as a successful, well-matched, happy vanilla couple that’s very much in love, with no one ever suspecting the depraved things we do behind closed doors. We would enjoy every aspect of life together- building a cosy home, sharing our interests together.

I’ve been searching for my special Princess to become my entire world, to love, spoil and cherish as well as completely control, abuse, train and punish as I see fit. A beautiful, successful partner that I’m proud to introduce to my family and friends.

Ideally I’d like to hear from women 38 and older, but it’s not a deal breaker. But it’s important you live close enough to meet on a regular basis.