Hi reddit! I'm looking to build a kink relationship online and maybe meet up if we live close by.

First of all I like to take thinks slow. When I'm in character I like to be the dominant or submissive but outside of that I would like to get to know people. What do you do for a living, what are your goals? Lets start with a normal human relationship before going anywhere.

Introduction of myself. I'm a 25 year old male in an open relationship for 4 years. Ive fallen for two people while being in my relationship and would concider myself polyamorous. Building a BDSM relationship is a way for me to find out if I'm purely in the love section of an open relationship or also on the sexual side. I did have a threesome and we had a sexual thing for a while but that kinda backfired. Since then I didn't wanna do purely sexual relationships anymore but Ive realised that that was too black and white. So here I am trying out something new to see if it fits with me and my personality. This is like a new experiment to me. I like to experiment and push my comfort zone.

As said I'm a switch. It's not that easy to find people here with the same orientation from my experience. I'm really into role swap during scenes although it really happens and both people need to be in that mindset. Sometimes it's just one or the other. It's hard getting to know people who have the same. Preferably I fall for bisexual people since they're more easily switch.

Dom kinks: Master-slave dynamic, Orgasm torture, Facefucking and letting the sperm go anywhere, Anything anal, Bondage (although not that experienced in getting the knots right)

Sub kinks: Being tied up, Pegging, Anal toys, Edging, Orgasm denial, Degration

Let me know if you find this interesting. I would also like to get feedback from people since I'm kinda new to the online search of BDSM partners. Have a nice day!