Been into BDSM for about 8 years now, I lay heavily on the side of being a Dom. It started out how it normally starts with Horny teenagers and have made most of the common mistakes already. I value communication above pretty much anything in a relationship because of it. Regardless of the dynamic, I value your opinion and will try my best to make you feel like I listened and understood. Id like things to be talked about, I don't mind spontaneous things, or surprises as long as they stay well within boundaries.

Dynamic/Kink Wise. I heavily love catering to my partner. I love being a Master, Being a Dom, Sadistic or understanding, Stern or caring. I love the aspect of control and trust, and really few things get me off physically or satisfy me emotionally in a relationship other than control and trust. Love language is Physical, and as such just about every kind I can get my hands on you and play you like a fiddle are on the board. Light to medium Bondage/Restrictive play(Handcuffs, to rope bunny, to sensory deprivation), Degradation, Humiliation, exhibitionism, Free use, CNC(Whatever form, you yourself, want to try. From roleplay, scenes, or events.) I am happy to be a taker if you just want to be a giver. But like I said above, Id like to have that conversation well before anything starts. I am not the person to come to if you expect me to try to take ownership of you immediately in the first dozen messages.

Physically, I am 6'2, 162LB, white, Brown hair of medium length, I recently took up running/Jogging, I'm pretty physically fit, Working on getting more fit. Been working on my looks and physicality for over a year now and don't plan on stopping. I want to be the healthiest I can be. Doesnt mean I am going for a 6pack but I want a flat stomach and to feel comfortable with myself. Id prefer if my partner at least had the same goals as me to be on this planet as long as livingly possible and I am doing everything in my power to hit that goal. Regardless of the dynamic, I would love for you to have your own life and live it, so I can happily be apart of it. Not be all there is.

Likes outside of the dynamic, I read allot. I have probably spent more time reading in the last year then anything else, and its not even close. I occasionally play games on PC, everything from Competitive shooters, to chill and relaxing games like Stardew, Minecraft, and whatever floats my boat at the time. I am very competitive when it comes to the ranked scenes on competitive games. But can easily enjoy casual gameplay. Like I said above, I have picked up running mostly to work on Cardio significantly more. I try to go every weekend, and sometimes on weekdays, I am a tall white guy, so I have no fear running at 2 am, especially after it rains. Pure bliss. I don't drink, or smoke, or anything like that, never been drunk, was high once, hated every moment of it. Work wise, I make well above average money doing Technical work for a smaller company, Long term outlooks seems good, work life is amazing, and I work from home allot as well as I live alone down in Englewood. Dont mind a drive up or down.

AMA, I do not mind, as long as it is mine to tell, I don't mind answering. I don't mind sharing a picture of myself either, I am not shy, if you do so will I, Just ask and I will go first. I don't mind the Hi's or Hey's. But Id like at least a name so I can say its nice to meet you!