Hello, young lady!

I've thought for a long time about exactly how, and whether to write this. I'm a sweet and loving man with a dark side. I have a deep seated desire to protect and lead. I think it comes from the innate nature of men and women. I'm not a misogynist (though I can play behind closed doors an it's fun) but I do believe we're created to complement one another. I want a woman who looks to me for that leadership, not because she can't function without it, but because we both function better in the correct dynamic. I need her to support me as the head of the relationship as much as she needs me to lead and correct her.

I love control. I want a lot. I want TPE and ownership. I want you to call me the big M word, but not until the right time (ask me more later!). I want to call you my sub, and other words that start with s. I also want to call you all the loving sweet things a vanilla man calls his love, and call you my little one. I'm a multifaceted person, and that comes out in having and enjoying many styles of dominance. I hope to find someone who thrives on that and is the same way as a sub.

I'm experienced. I've had subs, including my ex-wife. I have, in the past, been a selfish and terrible Dom. I don't want to be like that again. I've done a lot of self improvement over the last few years since my separation and divorce. I'm a much better man than I was, and still striving to be better. I have dated a few subs the past few years and I know being a better man has made me a better Dom. I'm ready to find the right woman and live happily ever after.

Physically I'm about 5'7", average build that used to be athletic and after a couple of health issues I want to get back in shape. Short brown hair, blue eyes that I'm told are not so bad to get lost in. :P No tattoos or piercings.

I'm a part owner of, and work in my family's business - decent chance that'll be your career too if things work between us lol. I've always wanted kids, but now I'm 42 and realistic, and I know that that part of the future depends on who I'm with and a number of factors. If you're a single mom that's cool with me :) I'm Catholic and my faith is important to me. If you're not Catholic, we should talk about how we would navigate that, and whether we could. The Church has declared my first marriage null, which means I'm free to marry, if you're wondering.

What do I want? I want a doting, feminine, soft, housewife and enthusiastic, cock-addicted free use fuck toy. Together we would work out exactly what that looks like. I want to be served and revered and treated like your king. I want you to be my princess and my queen (don't get carried away - I'm the king and I outrank you :P). I want to share our deepest thoughts and dreams. I want to know you inside and out - emotionally, psychologically, and physically. To everyone else we would look like the most wholesome couple. In private, you're my whore and you want to be used and abused in any way that satisfies me. Within what's healthy and good for us, of course.

I love hockey, and movies. I have a few favourite TV shows I can watch over and over, and I like good new stuff too. Years ago I loved camping and things like that but it's been a long time. I'd love to try it out again and see if I still do! I'm a city guy, but currently living in a ruralish small town and will be here for a bit. What the long term future holds on location/relocation is a bit up in the air. I'd love to reach the point I can travel again. Hasn't been much chance for me to do that the past few years.

Who am I looking for? Someone anywhere from 19/20 up to about 40, give or take depending on you. I have dated younger women and women close to my age, and both are great for some of the same reasons and some different reasons. If you're short and/or petite that's a bonus. Can't deny I have a preference for blondes but it's hardly a deal breaker lol. Beside which, if I want your hair dyed a different colour, you'll be a good girl about it. Hopefully you're in Canada - it would make things much, much easier, but for the right woman we can figure out the immigration logistics.

I'm sweet, and sadistic. I'll coo in your ear in the sweetest voice saying the most degrading things to you, while my hands prove them true. I'll also hold you in my lap and kiss your forehead and tell you you're my princess, tell you I'm the luckiest man alive, tell you panties aren't allowed on weekends so why are these ones on your cute little butt while my hand checks under your skirt.

I guess this has been a bit of a ramble, but if you think we'd hit it off, send me a chat! Especially if you're close enough that we could actually meet up and get to know each other!