Helloooo!! 🖤🦇🖤

Edit: 🌈🦄The stupid format wouldn’t let me post properly but I am open to NB Tops/Doms just prefer AMAB. Not open to difficult time differences, I’m PST and would prefer yours to be close to mine - Thanks ✌🏼🌈🦄

When it comes to making any r4r type post, I looove lists and ✨oversharing✨. So here goes:

About meeeee: - Married, parallel poly, child free, two cats. - 5’11, mixed (naturally tanned), HWP but naturally curvy, brown hair and brown eyes. Lots of piercings and lots of tattoos, witchy/goth aesthetic but I spend day to day in cycling shorts and nerdy tees. - She/Her, Pansexual queer, very Demisexual! Sometimes I think i’m some kind of grey ace because my attraction to people is very slow but then all of a sudden it clicks and then it’s very intense. - I’m very chatty and clingy!! (be warned) I prefer lots of communication but I am realistic about it. I like to bug people throughout the day with questions, memes, music, voice notes etc. Just little things to let you know i’m thinking about you. I enjoy long deep conversations as well as superficial stuff. - I love to laugh and generally be a silly goose. I’m a very curious person, I love to learn from people and their perspectives. I enjoy being self aware and introspective. I definitely overthink a lot which can be a bit annoying but I just know it will come in handy one day 🤓. - In my spare time I love to read and to listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love to go for bike rides and long walks in nature. I enjoy cooking and baking.
- Three years sober by choice and honestly don’t mind if you smoke/drink etc. - My attachment style can be a little bit anxious but it’s something i’m working on but it is triggered by avoidance, please don’t be avoidant (unless you’re actively working on it too). - Neurospicy and I have some sensory issues with physical touch but we can discuss this in more detail.

Looking for: - Ages 28 - 45 - Open to varying time zones if they’re close to PST.
- Someone who has the time, energy and enthusiasm for developing a connection and is consistent with this. - Please be self aware and take care of yourself both mentally and physically. I work really hard on myself, i’m always growing and learning and am looking for like minded people to experience this with. - Someone who is experienced in BDSM and looking for a long term D/s dynamic. I used to be a switch but now i’m very much sub leaning. Kind of been out of the scene for a while so looking for someone who’s patient easing me back in. - Someone who loves to role play, honestly this is one of my favourite things I got into last year and I crave it so damn much.

Kink Stuff: I’ve put this right at the bottom to test who’s going to read this far haha! - I am a bratty middle ✌🏼🖤 yaaay! and i’m looking for a Daddy/Sir/Master/Owner. I’m also super curious about petplay and would love to integrate this as much as possible. - You identify as a pleasure/sensual/soft dom, I respond much better to this than anything too hard. - Top kinks for meee: ddlg/cgl, praise, petplay, age play, role playing, somno, dirty talk (voice kink), outfit control, butt stuff and i’m very orally fixated (giving) - did I say praise? I’m putting praise in again. Hhhmm I’m kinda curious about some mild degradation and humiliation but need help with this. Oh and curious about orgasm control but a little nervous about this toooo.

Please reply with a thoughtful reply, face pics are a bonus! Hopefully speak soon! 🖤🦇🖤