I've been in full recovery from PTSD for many years with deep experience with trauma informed kink. PhD educated, assertive, confident, driven, successful, but also nurturing when needed and have found bdsm to be about much more than kink. I seek a partner I can invest my time and energy - my reward is your submission, loyalty, and watching you evolve.

You: My main requirement is serious intent. I don't have strict physical requirements only that you are reasonably attractive and take care of yourself. Preference to the self-aware, mental healthy savvy, and those that embrace BDSM as more than a kink. Distance isn't an issue as I am highly mobile within the US. You are likely secretly submissive, and not to just anyone, its a part of your brain that has only been accessed by a select few, ideally by someone you both trust and respect. In every day life you may be independent, perhaps successful in your own ways. But you are far from satisfied.

Me: I am physically attractive, patient yet firm, self-employed and have flexibility in travel and schedule. Vanilla interests include physical fitness, backcountry hiking, gaming, and all things history/culture/diversity and writing. I am a professional yet free spirited. Kink wise, I enjoy roleplay, power dynamics, DDlg, restraints/bondage, CNC, and much more. I am rarely interested in a single encounter - most of my past subs have been in training for several months, in some instances years. Although I can travel to most places in the US for the right connection, I prefer the South East.

Process: If interested, I have a vetting process to ensure compatibility. We will exchange pics, pleasantries, ensure we have basic alignment with rules/guidelines/goals. If its a match, we will move onto discussing in person scenes. Be willing to move to a secure communication app to establish a connection.