As the title states, I’m new to the community (and a virgin) though I’ve been aware of it for quite a long time. I’m looking for someone to guide me on this bdsm journey, hopefully long term.

A bit about me: I’m 5’3 145lbs, I’ve got some muscle and chub, though I’m working on slimming down some more. White, blue eyes, brown hair (sometimes dyed fun colors) tattooed, facial piercings, glasses, I’ve been described as cute and looking young for my age, though very passable as a man. I’m artistic, working on becoming a tattoo artist rn, I like anime, dnd, mystery novels, history and science documentaries, marvel comics, and other nerd stuff. I’d really like for us to have at least some hobbies in common :) Pros: I’m pretty emotionally stable, very open to new experiences, I (mostly) like following direction, I don’t really get jealous, and I’m funny Cons: I have brat leanings, I can be a bit clingy, and I don’t always pick up on innuendo and implications

Kinks: Size difference, CNC, lite watersports, spanking, punishments, choking, degradation, forced feminization, forced breeding, praise, anal, freeuse, daddy, biting Hard No: Scat, age regression, permanent damage, branding, complete control over my life

I’m mainly into bigger and older men, preferably 25-45, but definitely no one younger or shorter than me. My ideal type is a bear/ dad bod, a little chub is preferred. I’m also really into men with tattoos/ piercings/ ride motorcycles. I think I prefer a soft dom, preferably someone with a sense of humor, I like to be teased/ joked about and I like to return the favor (my more brat side) and get punished for it. I would prefer to start as online only, just until I get more accustomed to everything. Sharing pictures and phone calls is more than fine, but ideally I would like to move on to irl stuff. I would prefer if you lived in Washington, I’m in kitsap county, but I’m open to people farther away. The most important thing to me is that we mesh well, so if you think we’d get along, please feel free to message me.