I am an 18 year old female looking for a dominant in So Cal (potential Nor Cal too) no older than 25 and IRL ONLY. I’m in Bakersfield. A little about me. I am a submissive (honestly not exactly sure what kind of submissive but I know I am one as I have always been naturally submissive). I definitely can be a bit stubborn and sassy at times. I enjoy pain. I am in Southern California. I do not drive (it gives me anxiety). So someone who is willing to travel to me would be perfect (I also want to travel the world so someone who wants to do that as well would be amazing). I am looking for someone who wants a d/s dynamic as well as a relationship outside of the dynamic (boyfriend/girlfriend maybe eventually marriage). Eventually I would like a TPE 24/7 dynamic but I want to work up to that. I am brand new to the world of BDSM so someone who is willing to explore with me would be amazing. I want a dominant who is caring but also pretty strict. So I guess a mixture of a soft and hard dominant. I want them to be dominant inside and outside of the bedroom. I want someone who I can introduce to my family and they won’t be ashamed to be seen with me. Someone who will come to my school functions (ie graduation) as I am a senior in high school. I want to be able to sit down maybe over dinner with someone and go over rules, punishment, rewards, expectations, how our relationship will look like, etc. I want to spend time getting to know each other on a personal level before we get to know each other on an extreme sexual level, with that being said talking about hard limits stuff like that is important to see if we’re compatible. Another thing is I personally want to have sex/scenes on a regular basis, so maybe a couple times a week.

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