Hello!! (>‿◠) To get right to it, here's what I'm looking for in a domme! You are:

• Ideally a few years older than me, at least.
• A caring/nurturing dominant looking for a long term connection built on trust and making each other feel safe and loved. You like having complete control, but you might love being spoiled here and there as well.
• Fond of giving tasks and/or setting routines for your submissive.
• Ready to accept a sub's adoration and the responsibility of creating a space where they feel safe surrendering total control to you.
• Good with having a dynamic with someone in the EST timezone in the US.
• Preferably AFAB. As long as you don't fully identify as a man, we're good to go.

As for myself, I am:

• AFAB, curvy/plus size, agender (they/them), and a lesbian. I tagged this F4F because I am technically a female, so I hope this is appropriate.
• A switch with a strong preference for submitting in a dynamic. Occasionally a big fan of gentle/service topping if you want to be taken care of as well. ♥
• Somewhat femme, somewhat androgynous, but definitely cute to boot. I have curly brown hair, blue eyes, and real thick thighs.
• Not bratty in the slightest. I get pleasure knowing I’m following my domme’s instructions to the T and being the best slut she could possibly imagine.
• Interested in wardrobe/diet micromanagement as a somewhat prominent part of our dynamic. It’s not at all a requirement, but it’s VERY exciting.
• Perfectly content with an exclusively online relationship! Meeting up one day would be lovely, but yeah, it's not an immediate necessity.
• More than comfortable with sending pics and videos: I LOVE doing it once I'm properly wrapped around your finger. ;)
• Very understanding that we both have lives outside of our possible dynamic. I don’t need attention 24/7, and people who need my 24/7 attention can really freak me out. However, I can still be a very clingy kitty if that's what you like. ♥
• Someone with some boundaries concerning initial messaging and connection. As an act of self care (as I'm sure you also know, actively looking for a partner can be really emotionally exhausting), I don't check this account every day. If you respond to my ad and I don't say anything for a day or two, it has nothing to do with you! I'll log back in soon and then we can talk all we'd like. 🤭

For kinks, I'm a big fan of: spanking, collaring, wearing ears and tails, plugs, tasks, sensory deprivation, praise, sending pics/videos/ramble faps/voice messages, roleplay over text, and the aforementioned wardrobe/diet micromanagement. And while this is probably impossible over text/voice, I'm hugely turned on by somno.

I'd also be very interested in training for taking cock better (orally, anally, and vaginally, but especially orally).

Hard limits: scat, bloodplay, bladder control/pee, vomit

Soft limits: CNC, public humiliation

Outside of kink, I can usually be found taking walks, gaming, crocheting, and making digital art! I can be very shy at first, but don't worry, I'm thrilled to talk to you all the same! I love cute things, cozy/simulation games, snail mail, scrapbooking, and cats. :3 As a bit of sensory intrigue: I use perfumes and oils that smell like strawberries and light florals, and I use soaps that smell like honey. My body is very soft, and I've been told I give very good hugs.

If interested, please reach out! All I ask is if you later decide I’m not the one for you, please find the courage to actually TELL ME that instead of suddenly ghosting. I'm not good at intuiting what's wanted from me in situations like these, so please don't hesitate to be specific and open! I'm just looking for someone who, even if you're afraid to have serious discussions, you can find a way to be brave and do what you need to do anyway.

If you're interested, I look forward to hearing from you. Please tell me your ASL as well as what you like to bring to a D/s dynamic!🌹I want nothing more than to be the right domme's obedient kitty and personal fucktoy, so I hope we can click soon. 🥰