Hello!

I tried to think of a catchy intro for this post but the title kind of says it all, doesn't it?

About me: 44-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is taking a break from computers to take some art classes. I'm single, never been married and have no kids (and am not interested in having any). I enjoy reading, drawing, practicing guitar, photography, video games, walking, lifting weights and doing yoga. In the bedroom I enjoy being dominant with someone I have good chemistry with.

I'd describe myself as an "affectionate sadist"; I want to do stuff like hold hands and have dumb inside jokes and cuddle but in the bedroom I want to slap you around and call you degrading things.

What I'm Looking For:

In a recent post here, the writer stated "I don't want to be a slut. I want to be your slut." That's exactly the kind of attitude I'm looking for in a partner.

Looking for someone relatively close, but I'm up for chatting online if you're willing to meet up at some point. Depending on our chemistry and how we get along, I'm open to either something casual or something serious (and anything that falls somewhere between). Whatever our situation ends up being, I'm only interested in monogamy - juggling multiple partners isn't something that interests me, regardless of how casual/serious our relationship is.

Aside from one who identifies as "independent in the streets/submissive slut in the sheets", I don't have a specific type of woman I'm looking for but at the bare minimum it is important to me that you are able to hold a conversation. Also would like to exchange SFW pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction matters and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks.

As I mentioned, I'm most compatible sexually with women who are submissive in the bedroom and

• enjoy being treated roughly

• enjoy being degraded verbally

• are eager to please

• enjoy role-playing and/or bimbofication

but this list is not exhaustive and I'll be more than happy to discuss others as well as get into the specifics of what I've mentioned above.

Random SFW Facts About Me (That Could Possibly Help Start a Conversation)

• My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.

• Latest Addition to My Phone's Photo Album: Picture of a flyer someone posted on a bulletin board that has the musician Pitbull saying that he believes in you.

• Most Recent Mundane Errand Completed: After weeks of procrastinating, I finally hooked up the rear facing dash cam in my car.

• What Did I Have For Breakfast Today?: A banana alongside with oatmeal with blueberries.

• Last Treat Enjoyed: Lemon and Marionberry ice cream

• Currently Listening To: Teardrop - Massive Attack

• Currently Reading: Drawing Beautiful Women: The Frank Cho Method.

• Currently Watching: A bunch of walking tour videos on YouTube from far off places in the world. Also, the Katmai National Park/Brooks Falls Bearcam.

• Currently Wearing: A comfy dark grey t-shirt from a programming school I attended and light grey sweatpants.

• Currently Contemplating: What part of my figure drawing project I should work on next.

• Favorite beverage: Mandarin orange herbal tea

If you're interested, please say "hi" AND let me know a little bit about yourself. Also, to let me know you read the entire post and are not a bot, please tell me:

• In the spirit of the upcoming spooky season: if you could dress up as absolutely anything (assume that money and time to create the costume are no object) to attend a huge costume party (either alone or with friends), what would you go as?

• Along the same lines: if you could dress up as anything for your partner in private, what would you wear?

• What's your favorite dessert?

Low effort responses (e.g. "hey", "how's it going", "tell me more lol", etc.) will be completely ignored :-P Looking forward to hearing from you!