Third try, 37 female looking for what will hopefully turn into a long term dynamic. This is LONG but I really want to cover as much as I can. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Very basic starters- I’m only interested in men over the age of 30. I am also explicitly not looking for a Daddy.

The most paramount thing that I am ultimately looking for is someone who the conversation flows effortlessly with. I want to be able to be myself at all times with you. This means the chemistry is an absolute must.

I want flirtatiousness, I want banter, I want to be able to talk about anything. I don’t want to feel like I am having a formal conversation all the time. I don’t want to feel like I’m talking to a therapist (although you will undoubtedly be one on occasion 😅) I want you to have a personality and not just a list of interests 🥹

Obviously, it also would be great to have someone I'm physically attracted to (tall and at least kind of fit), but surface level things only go so far for me and I’m open to a bit of mystery as well.

Some stuff about me-

Physically: I’m 5’8(ish) blonde hair, brown eyes and in what I consider average shape.

I am a single Mom and my time can be somewhat limited just due to the logistics of my life. However, I do very much want something regular and am capable of finding time but I am definitely not available 24/7. I do live in EST time zone but am open to people in other time zones as well. My daily life is generally from about 4am to 8/9pm, the most open time that I will have available is from 5pm onwards. None of that means that I will be MIA the rest of the time. I will always communicate my availability (and everything else) with you, in fact you may get tired of hearing about what I’m up to.

I wish I had a big list of interests to throw at you but realistically being a parent and the stresses that go along with that take up the majority of my brain space. I do also love fitness and running (working on rebuilding my relationship with both) I love to read (but barely do it) and almost always am listening to something (music or podcasts). I do not care if we share the same interests as long as conversations that center around them are interesting!

Kinky Stuff-

I absolutely require someone who has patience but is still capable of holding me accountable. This means I need someone who is more strict than not. I also have been known to play well with people who are somewhat sadistic. While I do not love a ton of physical pain, I do enjoy the fact that sadists tend to play more of the long game. I’d like someone thats interested in exploring the various aspects of power exchange. I use a lot of this as an escape from the overwhelming of my daily life so having someone else to default back to, is huge for me.

My biggest kinks live in the realm of orgasm control, I love denial and edging. Especially long term denial. I prefer quality over quantity. I can be somewhat bratty but realistically the good girl side of me is more prevalent. I personally think it’s more of a sass streak than true brat status. I love when a partner is able to elicit control by getting into my mind, figuring out how I tick and using that knowledge in their favor. I like tasks that go beyond the basics and play into something bigger and more purposeful.

And lastly, for the sake of everyone's time some things I just am not into - I’m not at all into Daddy play, all anal play is strictly off limits, degradation is touchy with me and humiliation won't get you anywhere.

Bonus tidbit- I am an emoji (over)user. I use them to gauge tone a lot so if you are someone who does not use them or old school emoticons we likely are not a good match.