I'm looking for something quite specific.

I want to be in control, to be listened to, to have my directions followed. I spend my days feeling as though nothing is in my control and that everything I say is being ignored. Ideally, you're good at following directions. I'm also quite partial to voice calls and phone sex, and ideally, you're of the same mindset, and also submissive.

In short, I want to tell you how to touch yourself. When to touch, what to touch, when to take your clothes off, which piece of clothing you take off, how fast, how slow, when to start, when to stop, when to cum. I want to build it up and tear it down, repeatedly, until you've either gotten frustrated to the point of insanity or you're begging for the release I may or may not let you have. I want to hear you say how good it feels just as much as I want to hear you swear at me for taking control away from you.

I do not like degradation or humiliation. I absolutely refuse to refer to anyone as "slut", "whore", "bitch", or anything similar, and I likely will not engage with you if you refer to yourself as such.

I prefer a gentler touch, which seems out of place in this particular sub. I like to praise and give affirmation, and can be fairly affectionate with my partner(s).

Things about me:

Low voice

• Open to time zone differences
• Can and will engage in non-sexual conversation
• Looking for something casual, but long-term (non-exclusive)
• Likely will not be masturbating during a session (you are free to ask why)

Do keep in mind that I work full-time, so daily communication might not happen.

At the risk or scaring everyone off, here's my short list of requirements:

• No DDLG, CGL, I'm not "daddy", "master", or "sir", and I'm quite unimpressed if you identify as a "brat"
• Must be 21
• No being drunk or high when messaging or during a call
• No low-effort messages (e.g.: "hi", "i saw your post", "told u am gril pls respon", "tell me", etc.)

I'm willing to give you a short warming-up period if you're unsure. I would strongly prefer that you tell me straight-up that you don't see this going anywhere.

If you've made it this far, thank you for reading, please message with a little about yourself if you're interested.