Traditionally, over the last decade plus of exploring kink, BDSM, and hierarchical relationships, I have firmly placed myself I'm the "dominant" category. Mostly, because when I was first exploring and finding myself, I was met with uncomfortable feelings in the cases where a woman would attempt to dominate me.

In my opinion, the approach taken by many women I've talked to in the past, just didn't mesh well with who I am as a person, and I felt very icky in 99.9% of cases.

Since then, I have found myself as a dom in many types of dynamics, and I have spent an incredible amount of time attempting to learn, understand, and appreciate the submission of my partners what it means for them to submit to me, and why they choose to do so.

This post is possibly about building a romantic or playful relationship. It is a second attempt to try and find out if there is someone out there who may match my needs, desires, and also understands ( and respects ) where I am at in that discovery process.

To initiate the connection, I ask that you approach with the mutual respect that you would expect from any other human. I will not be degraded. And I will not be humiliated.

I am firm here simply due to the state of where kink and BDSM currently sit. I am not a match for you if you are a woman who views men as "less than", or if you are a woman who gets off on degradation or having 30 different men simping for you. I will never simp for you.

I am indeed looking for a very very specific type of dominant woman in order to converse, talk, and get to know. You will know by this point in this writing if you may be what I'm looking for.

If you do think we may have something to discuss, please tell me what my submission would mean to you. Tell me why you desire it, and what I could offer you, as well as what you could offer me.

I want to understand the way you think, not the way you crack a whip. I can do that, too.

I have no preference for body type, age, race, etc. But i do imagine that I would like to know what you look like overall, in either case. On my profile, I made a rather vanilla post recently with some photos of me. Please do respond with one or two of yourself as well so we can get a feeling for attraction as we go into things. If we do develop into something, I want us both to feel fireworks...