I enjoy control and I like clingy. The more control you're willing to give to me, the better.
I am looking for both a sub for the dynamic and a relationship. Monogamous, I don't intend to share. :)
I'm able to adjust my tone and behaviours to my sub quite well. Whether you're clingy or even super-attached, whether you're experienced or inexperienced, it's all fine for me and with communication, everything can be worked out in a satisfactory manner. My priority is your comfort, and to that end, I expect you to be very clear about your limits and wants and to clearly communicate if anything changes.
I am very affectionate. Both within as well as outside the dynamic, and while I can temporarily withhold affection within the dynamic, I don't enjoy doing that for extended lengths, so if you feel you need someone who's not very affectionate that's definitely not me. I think the contrast between controlling or commanding actions followed or preceded by affection is amazing, and I don't want to miss that.
My own limits: Illegal, scat, permanent markings/damage, anal.
Aftercare and reassurance are important to me, and I'd say I'm very good at both.
As for looks that I know matter to some: I'm 1,72, blond, blue eyes, that sort of thing.
Feel free to send a message if you'd like to get to know each other!
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