Hi there! I’m wanting to start the next year of my life off with a bang by (hopefully) meeting someone new! My birthday is approaching and I’m eager to open a new chapter!
Not looking for a fling, looking for something long term. We get to know each other and hang out. That means I’m not gonna talk in depth about kinky stuff until I feel comfortable enough too. Too soon gets one warning, Pushy gets deleted/ignored/blocked. Looking for Doms in North American timezones!
I’m a chubby chick, cuUuUurves, I gottem’. A bit of an alt chick, I dress in mostly black, but if I had the wardrobe to permit the outfits of my wildest dreams, I’d dress like a sick ass trash goblin. 18 piercings, 5 tattoos, collection is growing money permitting. Clutzy, cutesy, clingy.
About moi- PC gamer; looove it. I spend all my time on my 7yo old build. He’s a trooper and he is my Roman Empire. Baker; sweets, bread and me, if you catch my drift. Recreational gardener, herb connoisseur, pot head. Hey! You don’t have to join in, ~I wish you woouuullllddddd~, but you do have to be okay with me doing it. Chef; Yes I do the cooking, I fucking hate the cleaning. I loooove to cook, but I get the dreaded nose blindness so can’t taste the loveliness I make first hand. Leftovers are where it’s at for me, sometimes. Artist; I draw. Blah. I know how to carry a tune, can I do it though? No. Get ready for bad singing hahaaha. Comedian; The funniest person to themselves you will ever meet. I don’t tell jokes, I love to say puns tho, but I’m just hilarious, trust. That being said, I’m also the type of person to be scared to laugh out loud in my own apartment even though I live alone.
Kinky Moi- I describe myself as a soft brat. I like to be pushy just enough to hear a bit of sternness/aggression/anger in my Dom’s voice. Then, I become a baby for a while, then back to bratty. But this only some of the time, because I like my Dom to be my Daddy. I like to kiss ass sometimes just to get attention and affection. I’m just sweet baby angel bun, basically. I am not a little. Aftercare is a must. I have a voice kink. I love love love being talked to and at, and bossed around. Bonus points if you have an accent or know another language (extra extra points if it’s Spanish). I like praise and degregation, a healthy mix of the two is what I like to say.
I have my kink list available upon request and when the time feels right.
Hard limits: ageplay, scat, diapers, permanent disfigurement, animals.
About tou-
As a Dominant, you take pride in leading with a firm yet compassionate hand. You set the boundaries and establish the rules in a scene, always ensuring they’re built on mutual trust and respect. For you, control is about creating a safe, consensual space where both of us can explore desires and limits together. You understand the importance of clear communication and are attentive to my needs, knowing that true dominance requires both strength and empathy. Your role is to provide structure, protection, and fulfillment while maintaining the delicate balance of power that we’ve both agreed upon.
That being said, I’m not looking to follow a cookie-cutter D/s relationship, I want to develop a unique relationship between us.
I know, I’m so eloquent and have such a way with words. An automatic no is a Dominant younger than I, I just can’t do it. Facial hair? Hairy? Ooftahh. Bonus points for you! PC gamer? BONUS POINTS!
I’ve been around the block a few times when it comes to vetting Dominants, so I know what I’m looking for and I’m not afraid to ghost anyone who doesn’t resemble what I’m looking for. I reserve the right to "ghost" anyone I deem creepy or fake, also those who do not read my entire post and just send "hey xx" messages or those similar to that, I understand this may come across as abrasive, so I apologize, but I know what I'm looking for.
I look forward to hearing from you..~
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