I'm an ethically non-monogamous sub-leaning switch seeking a Sunnyvale-area woman under 50 to be in-person play partners, fwbs, dating partners, or life partners. Let's meet and find out how best we fit! I want to connect on non-sexual and vanilla levels as well as sexual and kinky. My ideal partner would be an ethically non-monogamous Domme-leaning switch, but I'm also open to connecting with women who don't match that description exactly.

As a sub, I enjoy being teased, following orders, female body worship, and having my partner control my orgasms (would like to try having them ruined, too). My strongest kink is cuckolding, though I haven't tried it yet. Maybe you have other regular partners that you intend to keep seeing, or maybe you like going out and meeting new partners -- there are a lot of ways this could play out, and I'm flexible about a lot of aspects of it (maybe part of the fun can be trying out different ways of doing it!). A lot of my pleasure comes from feeling like I'm pleasing my partner, so I'm also open to submitting to some your kinks that I don't share assuming they don't violate my limits.

If I dom, it'll be mostly about what kind of experiences you want to have. I have experience with a variety of activities including bondage, spanking, breast play, figging, and consensual non-consent, so let me know how you like to be treated (or mistreated)! 😉

I insist on limits and safe words for both of us, regardless of our roles. When you respond to this ad, please tell me what you like to use as a safe word.

My vanilla interests include computers and technology, tabletop RPGs like D&D, video/computer games like Final Fantasy and Borderlands, card and board games, sci-fi/fantasy movies and TV shows (Doctor Who, Star Trek, MCU, etc.), and so forth.

I look forward to hearing from you and learning what we might enjoy doing together. :)