I find that many (but not all) doms here are in it for the quick gratification. They treat this place as just an easy way to lure nudes out of women who didn't know they were being used. I'm not against using, but definitely not in that way. I want something real. 

Imagine the struggle of you trying to focus while your mind is spinning from all the teasing. Your flushed cheeks revealing the embarrassing satisfaction of what you're doing. There's no where else you have to be, nothing else you have to do. You only need to sit there and listen to that primal part of your brain that's telling you to get wetter, needier and more desperate so that you can satisfy yourself. After you're done giving up control, after your head clears, and after the hormones have finished flushing throughout different parts of your body, you can take a look at your sweaty, marked and sore self and realize that you truly enjoyed it. You enjoy the submissiveness that comes from the inherent unfairness of your sexuality. It's not your fault that you get dripping wet after hours of teasing. It's not your fault for having sensitive breasts and the ultra sensitive clit that are so easy to take advantage of. It's not your fault that me taking advantage of them will always bring you to your knees. You can't help but feel that special twinge in your stomach and pussy when you think of being manhandled, bound or tied up. You love to please, you love to be roughed around, you love to be disciplined and protected while also being romanced because it's who you truly are, and you don't need to feel shame for it. You work hard enough in your daily life, it's time to give up control and have that energetic release you've been desperately needing. 

Me: I'm a 24 year old man, 6'1, about 185 lbs. Decently fit but a little thin, white/hispanic with medium length dark curly hair. I do not have a lot of thick, dark body or facial hair, so if you are looking for a "bear" I will not be a good fit for you. I also understand that I may not be everyone's type! I have been compared to Adam Driver.

I am not looking for mindless interaction. I am here to make a genuine connection with a sub who seeks the same. I want to learn not only your hobbies, but what makes you tick, what your day to day life looks like, and what you want from me. Open communication is a must for me, although I know it may take time to get there. I want to hear about your day, as much as you feel comfortable sharing. I want to know how you're feeling, what you need, what you're not okay with, and how we can both benefit from an in person or online experience. I want to learn about the things you love, not just the things you hate. I would like a genuine connection with someone I can come to call a friend. 

Some of my favorite hobbies are reading, working out, running, gardening, traveling, playing my instruments and (attempting) to write music. 

As you can probably guess from my wording, hobbies and desires, I am a very passionate and sensitive person. Therefore, vulnerability and communication on both ends is very important to me. I am proud of my past academics and I really enjoy learning new things about science, philosophy, history and many more, so people who have a curiosity for learning about the world is a huge plus. I think I'm quite open and fun to have a conversation with. 

In terms of kinks, I enjoy power play and over all giving commands and being in control. I love spanking, edging, orgasm control, choking, slapping, obedience, anal play, clamping, blindfolds, and slight misogyny play, and many more. Of course you may not align with all of these, so limits will need to be discussed. If it's in person it would be all of these as well as handcuffs, hair pulling, and again, a few others we can have fun discussing. Being bratty every once in a while is also appreciated, and being open to anal play is also greatly appreciated!

Who I am looking for: A woman around my age. Someone who is okay with seeing each other's vulnerable side with due time. My physical type would be someone relatively fit, preferably short, although I'm not a huge stickler for either of those! If you don’t fit these preferences you can absolutely still message me. Personality is the most important. DDF preferred (no crackheads please).

A huge must for me is being okay with showing ourselves in photos or camera down the line, especially when I ask for certain tasks that are not in person. This is a very important way for me to feel connected with someone. Of course we could also verify with each other when we are ready. I have a few years experience with a few subs over the years, and our online dynamics have always been very enjoyable. I do not mind whether or not you have experience, newbies are absolutely welcomed.

In terms of hobbies, I really love readers and somewhat active people! But hobbies are personal and I appreciate learning about all types of people's personal interests.

Also Important! Please be local! That will be preferred! I am in the eastern portion of LA county. I am looking for something genuine with someone I can also spend time with and hangout with. I'd love to be able to do things together like go to museums, beaches, going out to eat, walks, and many others! This can absolutely be something long term with the right person, as in a romantic relationship. It's something I am open to but am not pushing for, and I'd like to know if you are open to it too.

I love to chat throughout the day and get to know each other, so I'd like if you are available too even though we both have busy lives. While there is no rush to do anything sexual online, I still think it's important to get a feel for compatibility.

Even if you don't think you are a perfect match, you can still message!

If you are interested, I am excited to hear from you! Please message with some basic stats about you like height, body type, hair color and a few hobbies of yours and maybe what you liked about my post :) Please type more than just “hello” because I get many messages from scammers, and they nearly all start out that way. 

P.S. I am also a switch, so if you are as well let me know, and I appreciate the bratty types at times ;)