Hi hi! I'm a 36F 6'1" switch looking for my primary sub. I am polyamorous with an existing relationship with my tomboyish domme but looking for quality, not quantity. I want what she can't provide, not lots of partners. We don't have to meet up right away, but I am looking for a long-term IRL sub.
I don't have a super sadistic side and care more about obedience than inflicting pain, but I'm happy to make sure that you get to live out whatever kinks you have fully, short of things that are truly unethical.
I want someone intellectual and passionate, as, even though I would own you, I would cherish you and want to connect with you deeply. I like CNC-type dynamics, but only want to be on the controlling end if I can ensure that you feel the trust and care that I will use that power responsibly. I know some less experienced subs find that less exciting (including myself back in the day), but it's what's ideal for that kind of arrangement. I want you to have everything you need not just emotionally but materially to both be happy for yourself and to be the best sub you can be for me.
A lot of what I would expect out of you would be fun and sweet too, like playing video games together or getting snuggly on the couch and watching something. I want a sub, but in some ways, I want a dependable little spoon even more. It'll be especially good after we get done with an intense scene. I want someone who will be very sweet and even a bit needy with me, who, even if I expect submission and obedience out of, I will mostly treat sweetly in kind. (Mostly!)
Petite & short is a huge plus. I prefer folks with more of a geeky aesthetic too (as I have myself).
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