Hello to the people reading! I have recently have been enamored with the BDSM lifestyle, and i'd like to form a fun long term dynamic with someone. I prefer to get to know you first, before we do anything so we can establish some sort of trust. I'm actually a switch, so i'm open to swapping roles, but i'm mainly here to be a domme.
Although I am without experience, i'm not without knowledge. Currently trying to finish the book "The loving dominant" and am always trying to find more information on BDSM. I would much prefer domming someone that is experienced in being a submissive, but if someone is also new and inexperienced, I think it could be fun if we learn our respective roles together. Of course we'd go slow to start to get our bearings, if that was the case. Also I would like to verify my sub at first, to make sure you are, who you say you are, and I will do the same.
The type of dynamic I want is, where I am your gentle but strict daddy. I will set rules, and make sure you obey them. Failure to do so will result in punishment. Levels of punishment vary. After sessions I will provide aftercare and praise. Also capable of being a little sadistic, if that's the situation you are looking for.
You must be comfortable sending pictures/videos, they do not have to include your face if you do not want to. I value and respect peoples anonymity.
My kinks include; edging, teasing and denial, orgasm control, rules, tasks, praise and degradation, body writing, chastity, pet play, cock worship, begging, anal/gaping, nipple play, voyeurism, and humiliation.
My limits are; moderate to extreme pain (unless.... you.. want it? idk) bathroom play, public play, brats, choking, anything illegal.
A little bit about me; 5'10, with blonde hair and blue eyes, I am average weight, and fit. Turning 21 in 2 months, and I like to learn about history, any topic really. But my favorite chapters of history, are definitely the pre world war 2, and napoleonic wars eras. So many fascinating events happened in these time periods.
Fun fact the French found the Rosetta stone in egypt, because of Napoleon. He brought scientists with him when he invaded egypt.
Watching videos on youtube, or good movies is something I like to do to pass the time. Also playing video games since I own a pc, i'm mainly playing Dayz at the moment. (If you play games too, maybe that's something we can do to bond over and get to know eachother better.) In between that I hang out with friends, although i'm rather an introvert so I spend more time doing the former than the latter. i've also started reading more and more political theory, so if you are a leftist, points for you. Oh I also like to smoke weed but can't right now for an upcoming drug test (420 friendly)
If anything of this resonated with you, please don't hesitate to shoot me a message! Questions? Ask them!
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