If you read the title of my post and found yourself agreeing, message me. If we can agree on that much, that having your orgasms controlled and out of your own hands, is important, then there's a good chance we'll be able to figure out most everything else
Controlling your orgasm is important to me. Really important. When mixed with a few other things like reliable communication and a growing level of trust, it is the glue that will hold this thing together. The certainty in both of our minds that whatever else may be happening, the only way you orgasm is if you ask for and receive permission, is the crux of this thing
I have a long list of kinks ranging from the simple and mild to the more extreme and challenging side of things. I'm comfortable leaning away from things that distance you from the desired experience and comfortable leaning into things that reinforce it. Remember controlling your orgasms is the bedrock and we can build from there
Things that I enjoy but are not required: discipline, tasks, routine, structure, training, drool, toys, household objects, embarrassing, humiliating, clinical focus, pain, sexual exhaustion, edging, forced orgasm, multiple orgasm, overstim, and more
It's fine if you don't match me on every kink and it is fine if any of these are in your limits. Bring Your Own Kinks as well
It's also fine if you are a switch or dominant in every other aspect, even sexual aspects with other partners, as long as you are willing to submit in this one aspect, in this one dynamic. You don't even have to be traditionally attracted to me, as much as to the control, so this is something I've had some success with lesbians and asexuals as well and don't mind doing again
As long as we agree, having your orgasms controlled is the important thing
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