I'm a 46 yr old guy, but I look quite a bit younger. I regularly get told I look around 35. Face pic on profile, so judge for yourself (yes, it's recent!). I'm not a gym rat, but I work out several times per week and stay in decent shape, athletic build. Sense of humour is huge for me as I laugh a lot. I also value deep discussions, so balance is important.

I'm seeking a partner (F) who's just as perverted as me in the bedroom. I don't think I can possibly go back to vanilla after all these years! I'd be bored to tears! I don't really care for labels, but I suppose dom-leaning switch would be the closest. I like to be able to go wherever the mood takes us, so if you want to take charge sometimes, then I want us both to be satisfied. But I'm also comfortable being the one in charge. Open to experimentation and whatever gets us both off the most at the time. Every dynamic is different so let’s see where things lead us.

I'm very experienced and have had several LTR's with a heavy kink aspect. I don't so much have a "I want to try that" list. I have a "I want to keep doing that" list. I have my lines, obviously. I don't like giving or receiving too much pain (some pain is fun but I prefer the pleasure to always outweigh the pain). I love anal play, but I don't do scat play, ever.

I'm based in North Yorkshire. Ideal scenario would be meeting a woman that develops into a LTR, but I'm open to casual arrangements and hookups as long as we click. I prefer regular meets because building trust is important and let's face it, the sex is always better the more you're comfortable with each other.

If you want to know more DM me and let's chat.

I'd love to hear from you.

x

P.S.

Can't believe I have to clarify this stuff but my DM's remain rather disappointing. Way to go, Reddit...

Yes, I'm currently single!

If you message me I'll want to clarify a few things first - your age, rough location, your current situation & what you're looking for, at least a rough description of what you look like. I don't have the time to chat to everyone who DM's me for an hour before we've established these basic details. If we're on the same page, let's chat. If we're not, let's not waste each other's time. Also, try and have something to say, not just "hi" or "I saw your ad". I've given you plenty of info to go on, so at least try to make conversation like a human being and introduce yourself and tell me why you're messaging me.

I won't help you cheat! If you have a BF already, stay out of my DM's. Same goes for married women looking for open relationships.

If you've created a burner account in the last 24 hours, I won't respond.