Hello, I'm a 33 year old man from Chicago with over 10 years of experience as a dominant, with a particular interest in spanking and discipline. I'm 6'4", white, fit, generally considered attractive. I'm a successful self-employed professional who doesn't drink, smoke, or use drugs.
I've always been into self-discipline and improvement, and I enjoy helping others achieve these things. I'm mostly looking for non-romantic subs and spanking partners, but may be open to more with the right person.
Maybe you're a college student who needs some accountability, maybe you're a professional who needs a firm authority figure to keep you on track, or maybe you just need some general structure and discipline in your life. I'm pretty flexible about how we approach things. A few things I enjoy and have experience with:
- Helping set goals, stop bad habits, build good behaviors
- Enforcing rules, deadlines, behaviors etc.
- Spanking (with hand, belt, strap, paddle etc.)
- Scolding and lecturing
- Praise and reward when you're a good girl or reach certain milestones
- Light humiliation
- Light bondage (especially for those who need a little extra restraint during discipline)
- Aftercare
I'm looking for something semi-regular that lasts for at least a couple months, where we're able to meetup at least once every month or two - I am not interested in online only dynamics.
Respect and consent are nonnegotiable and these things go both ways. I'm not interested in brats, and I expect all my subs to demonstrate a certain level of effort and maturity.
Ideal candidates are:
- 18 to 30-something females
- Single, or doing this with partner's consent
- HWP and relatively fit (open to many body types, but respectfully not interested if you're significantly overweight or obese)
- Ideally within a few hours of Chicago (if you're not, and you're still interested, get in touch - I travel often and if you're willing to travel too, perhaps we can work something out)
If you're interested, chat or DM me with the following information:
- Age
- Location
- Physical description (height, hair/eye color etc.) and a SFW photo (whatever you're comfortable sharing at this point)
- A brief description of what you do and your interests
- A brief description of what you're looking for
- Any questions you may have
Double check that you sent me everything I asked for; messages that do not follow instructions will not receive a reply. I look forward to hearing from you.
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